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I have a crush on him, what should I do (we are Muslims)?

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Question - (21 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 September 2009)
A female Malaysia age 30-35, *hiwi writes:

I have a crush on this guy. He is my best friend. He is always beside me. I know him since the time he's still dating his ex-girlfriend. But, now they are no longer together. We went to a vacation together and enjoy weekends together. We are Muslim, so kissings, huggings and touchings aren't allowed. We never show love to each other. But, recently he kept declaring me as his 'lovely girl' to some of my friends. The problem is, I am so into him but I don't know what is his feeling as he just acts normal when we are together. I am confused.

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A male reader, thebeardedguy India +, writes (21 September 2009):

Get out of it!

As touching, kissing and hugging is not allowed, so is having unlawful affairs!

He has had girlfriends in the past. So I am sure he is not the shy types, he must be fooling you. Or may be he wants to use you.

When your supposed to be bf had gf's, what is the assurity that he will have none after you!

Wakeup, stop this, it is haraam!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009):

maybe like you, he is too shy to declare his feelings. why not take the initiative and give him a strong hint that you are in to him or ask a mutual friend to tell him that.

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