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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've got a boyfriend and we've been dating for a few months and we want to start on foreplay. I like the idea of it but I'm quite sensitive about my vagina. I know this may sound creepy/strange/etc. but I've fingered myself and I'm quite self-concious about it, like I don't know how it's supposed to feel inside and my boyfriend's fingered girls before so I get really worried that I'm not as good as the other girls or that my vagina isn't as good enough as the other girls he's fingered and I'm really scared about it. This may sound weird that I don't know my own body but what exactly is it supposed to feel like inside? I don't want my boyfriend to feel it if it's not how it should be, mine feels quite bumpy at the beginning then goes smooth inside but I'm still very self-concious. Is it bad or am I just being paranoid? Thank you so much! All advice is muchly appreciated.
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reader, cheated  +, writes (21 September 2009):
relax hunny, have never seen or heard of a ugly vagina.. my wifes vagina has changed from when i met her after we have had 5 little kiddies. but do you know what???? its still as beautiful as the day she first intraduced me to it. lol.
all different shapes, sizes, smells, and it is what makes us all individuals. just imagine if they were all the same... how dull and plain the world would be.
ever since pubity i have been super worried about my penis, average length so i have been told but it is bent to one side when erect. but guess what, that doesnt concern me one little bit at all anymore because i know that is the reason my wife orgasm's EVERYTIME we make love. we both have the right shape to make that perfect connection..
just relax and go with the flow if you really feel your ready.. good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): It is wonderful that you are getting to know about your own body! It's truly yours, and you are very normal. The bumpy part in the entrance arises from tissue similar to a man's prostate when you were in your mother's womb. It is very sensual, and called your g-spot. I would have to agree with the other comments, but remember to protect yourself when you decide to do sexual things with others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): As you have already been told - stop worrying!
Sounds like you've found your g-spot; the rough bit, where all else is smooth around it?
Just in case you or he don't know, it's a pleasure centre that he can rub and bring you off just as well as playing with your clit.
Good luck!
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reader, Bam4Me  +, writes (21 September 2009):
You know all people are different. Yours is NOT supposed to feel the same. It's your body, no one else has to live in it. If you don't like it no one else will. Think about that one.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): For it men wage wars, conquer continents, invent things, build and destroy civilizations just to impress the female and win her vagina.I assure you he will like it.
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female
reader, supermum +, writes (21 September 2009):
 i will tell you now that vaginas are not the best looking things in the world lol.... but, like penises, they come in all shapes and sizes, some have big puffy outer lips, others have samller outer lips, some are brown, some are pink... some have what seem to be weird bits and pieces aorund them.... they are all different, and i can garantee your boyfrined wont hate it!!!! he is prob just as worried about what you will think of his penis!!!!!!!!!!relax and enjoy yourself..... honestly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): its totally normal ! nothing to worry about!
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reader, JSBach +, writes (21 September 2009):
You girls and your complexes! As if you don't have enough hangups about your breasts, hair, eye colour, complexion, teeth, weight, hips, legs etc.
I have never experienced a "bad" vagina, and I have never heard of such a thing. If there were "bad" vaginas, we men would talk about them all the time, but we don't, because there aren't any. So stop worrying and start enjoying your teenage years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): From a male's point of view, you're panicking. Go fot it. x
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