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Archived questions from: 23 June, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Overpowering urges, can anyone help me control them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - heya I'm having a problem. I'm a male, 17 and I want to control my urges to females. Its natural for me to feel a greater desire at this age but I want it to stop. I feel that when I control this desire I will be able to talk to girls more confi...

I seem to be constantly aroused sexualy, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - I was wondering if its normal for me to be seemingly constantly aroused sexually, im almost 19 and have never had sex of any kind. I have to literally masturbate at least once a day otherwise it just causes me to get stressed out. I can stop and ...

Help! How do you know if a guy friend wants to be more than friends?

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23 June 2009 (F) - How do you know if a guy friend wants to be more than friends? The first time I met my guy friend we were close and best friends. I knew he liked me and I started really liking him. Then he became distant and didn't like hanging out with me. He ...

How long was your first kiss with a new person?

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23 June 2009 (F) - This is just a general question. But when you had your first kiss ever, or even a first kiss with a new person, how long did it last? Because I had my first kiss ever a few weeks ago and it lasted for over an hour. We obviously broke apart t...

I feel as if they just view me as a big joke...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a while now... and today, i was seen with him by some people from my old school (not a big deal is it?) but they just burst out laughing as they walked past us... looking directly at us! At school i was one of the unpo...

I really need your advice... could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - well. im another stupid teenager and i am very young. and have a few questions. i might be pregnant. The last time i had sex was at the begining of this month. it was after i had already started my period. Today, i think i discovered a hym...

I really love him and don't know what to do.

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23 June 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for like 12-13 years and i have feelings for him and i love him! I think he uses me as he only wants to no me when theres no one else around but i always say yes I'll come out if he asks me because i love him i cant say no, O...

Caught watching porn by my brother's friend... help

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23 June 2009 (F) - earlier today i got caught looking at a pornish video and im really embarrassed about it. let me explain... ok so i was talking to my friend on IM and he linked me a video that was supose to have a funny ending, i told him i didnt wanna watch it b...

Emotion of a teenager

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23 June 2009 (M) - Am 20 and am being shown some concern by a girl of 17 since i started visiting their home. My friend who is their neighbour usually passes by to say hi because i know this girl's elder sister, so any time i don't see my friend he used to be there at...

I need this hicky gone by tonight as I have to wear a low cut shirt!!!!

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23 June 2009 (F) - I have a hickey and I need it gone by tonight! People are doing my hair and I HAVE to wear a low cut shirt! HELP...

Stuck in the middle of you!! Please help!

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23 June 2009 (F) - I have two best friends. My bestest friend Noureen* really likes this guy and has done for over a year, and he's just told her after them doing sexual stuff that he never wants to see her or touch her again (hes a horrible person). She has also, may ...

Help! What can I do to make my boyfriend feel really special?

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23 June 2009 (F) - Hiya everyone! I'm still stuck on how to make my boyfriend feel special, we both live with our parents thus limiting some of the things we can do, we're also both students (im in college, hes about to start uni) so i dont have much money... Does...

Does he seem like a player?

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23 June 2009 (F) - hey! well me and this boy have been talking for a little, he always comes over, he is very respectful to me, we don't go out, heard he hooked up with a girl, but he kept asking to chill with him, he came over my house for a little then left to his ...

Cool theme for an 18th birthday party?

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23 June 2009 (F) - Anyone have cool ideas for an 18th birthday party? Since it's holidays where I am now many of my friends are away but I have about 12-16 people who would come. I have a pool and a function room at my condo but that's pretty much it. Also would like ...

How can I get closer to my friends without appearing clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - This is the 3rd question I have put up about my friends, well kinda, and it might not be the last, but thanks everyone for your support. Okay so I've survived the first 2 days back at school after my friends bitched about me and then left my sleep...

I am unsure what I want with her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Another follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-kind-of-gift-would-be-fun-and.html OK, my situation is that I am unsure about what I want with her, and I think she is the same with me. I do want a friendship, but I want more (rom...

I don't know what to do and am terrified he'll reject me!

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23 June 2009 (F) - I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in ...

Obsessive and haywire brother...

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23 June 2009 (?) - Someone may remember about my issue with my adopted brother. Well, I made my decision that I wanted to end our relationship so I talked to him but then, he went nuts. He scolded at me and said not to leave him and said that he'll change. I said that ...

Help me get over this crush...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - i have a big crush on someone but i dont know how to handle it. i know that a crush is a crush is a crush and a part of me doesn't want it to go away but i know i have to get over it and i dont know how to please how do i get over a crush...

I found out he has a girlfriend! WHY do boys lead girls on!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Why do boys lead girls on, kiss you, hug you, act like they care for you. then when it comes to it they 'don't want a relationship'? I was with my ex for almost a year and a half, it was so perfect to begin with, we were so in love, we broke up...

I have a boyfriend but I may just have feelings for this other guy! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - okay, Dilemma. I have a boyfriend, a past guy hurt me and now he is trying to come back into my life. the story: I moved schools and met a really nice guy (he had a gf). So at first it was really nothing, at least to me it was just a fr...

I'm confused about my feelings for these guys and need some advice...

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23 June 2009 (F) - - broke up with the "love of my life" (1) - string of bad experiences with lads - started seeing a boy(2) i have known for years, we're good friends, used to really really like him, however, managed to then keep it at just a sexual and close friend...

The case of thr stinging lube!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Hey Aunties and Uncles! Thanks in avance for any help you can give - it's all appreciated :) Anyway... Yesterday when me and my boyfriend of just over a year were having sex, he wanted to do anal, so asked for me to fetch the lube ('cause we ...

I am 15 years old and I'm scared I may be gay!

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23 June 2009 (M) - i am 15 years old and im scared i may be gay because growing up i didn't have a father figure at all because my dad was never around, and i try to make myself a man each day but its hard see i only get aroused to naked men not women and i really ...

Falling for the wrong guy

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23 June 2009 (F) - Okay so me and this guy had a thing last summer, we kissed, and blah blah blah, i was in love with him, but he always got high and ditched me, and then came back, he always got locked up, so i said fuck it, and then he got locked up for 5 months, so ...

My boyfriend wants to be single incase someone else comes along

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me today, he wants to be single! We have been on and off for about 9 months now.. We just got back together about three days ago.. he told me that he wants to be alone incase somebody else comes along.. that hes really suppose ...

Me and my obsessive adopted brother....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

23 June 2009 (?) - me and my adopted brother are in love with each other. Is that weird? Is it considered as incest? last week, we had our first sex with each other. Its just that, i feel wrong and im scared if my parents found out. Its not easy to just end our ...

Will my friend resent me if I got with her friend?

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23 June 2009 (M) - Hey, I've been interested in my best friend's (girl) best friend for a few months now. My friend said if I hurt her she'd kill me.. I would never hurt her intentionally by all means but what if things did lead to other things with this girl? Would ...

What can I do about my dysfunctional personality?

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23 June 2009 (F) - I have a strange situation. The first time a guy liked me [in a serious way] I felt so uncomfortable, my life was a living hell. I thought it was because he was incredibly forward and I felt I had no say or control over it. Looking back, that wasnt ...

She was my best friend as well as my girlfriend but now her parents are sending her to a different school...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so this is what happened: I am a girl and about three months ago my girlfriend and I started going out without telling anyone. Then he parents found out and her mother especially wasen't to keen on the idea of us since we're both girls. For ...

My boyfriend treats me like a doll!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend treats me like a doll. He loves to hold me and carry me around, and he's always telling me how adorable I am. He treats me like I'm his to protect and love, like a flower he's trying to get to bloom, why do some guys do this?...

Would it be silly to start a relationship now?

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23 June 2009 (F) - Ok, well I've started to become more and more attracted a guy I'm good friends with. We text each other nearly every day and I have been told he likes me, but he doesn't make any moves, except from the regular "hey, how are you doing/how's your day ...

Is it normal for me to have doubts about our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now, and we love each other, we lived in the same island at first, but then he went back to the states and we haven't seen each other in four months, I know we have a strong relationship, but ...

Do you think he could have only said no because his friends were there?????

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23 June 2009 (F) - There's this guy I like but don't talk to!!! I know weird!! Anyways this weekend at the fair my bffl asked him if he liked alison (name changed) he said alison who? My friend told him and he said umm i dont know her..... Then she refreshed his ...

I introduced them and now they're texting one another, thing is I liked him first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Okay so I have this best guy friend whom I love like a brother and he knows everything about me and I feel super comfortable with him, the thing is I introduced him to my best chick friend about a year ago and now she gave him her number and she ...

I love my boyfriend to bits so why do I keep thinking about other guys?

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23 June 2009 (F) - Let me start by saying that I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I have been in a relationship with him for a year now and this is the only relationship I've ever been in. My problem ...

Why do I stop his advances?

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23 June 2009 (?) - Hi! I have a friend, and he's somewhere in between a friend with (limited) benefits and a boyfriend to me. Our relationship is odd, but that's not the focus of my question. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to say this right: If ever we're kis...