New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in June, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (26), 2 (32), 3 (19), 4 (21), 5 (21), 6 (17), 7 (26), 8 (42), 9 (33), 10 (41),
11 (25), 12 (24), 13 (14), 14 (22), 15 (32), 16 (24), 17 (41), 18 (36), 19 (18), 20 (23),
21 (19), 22 (32), 23 (37), 24 (45), 25 (30), 26 (25), 27 (32), 28 (23), 29 (24), 30 (46),

Archived questions from: 10 June, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

(More questions from June, 2009)

Teenage: Help and advice

My lack of trust in him is damaging our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. I have known him since two years ago. Around February of last year we became boyfriend and girl friend. Then though, a job transfer happened and i had to move about 300 miles away. Given aro...

How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i want to know whether it's possible to get back with a guy, and if so how... basically, i was with this guy for about 2 and a half months, which for me at my age is quite a long time btw. Anyway, i was with him, we had a few arguments, but n...

Bessie mate becoming a bit obssesed with lad, its becoming a tiny bit annoying....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - hey :) now, this isnt really a problem, well, its kind of is seeing as im writing about it but i think im making a big deal out of nothing, im not sure. well, me and my friend are 15, were best friends and dont have many secrets lol, so were c...

I want to be sure that he's not going to leave me for her... but how can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - ok... I'm not sure how to do this...so i'll just keep rambling till my question comes to mind. =) i'm 16, and i'm in my first relationship. it's been three months, and i swear on my life i've never been happier! the boy i'm with is amazing in ev...

How do I fall out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i think i'm in love with a guy. but i don't want to be, i want to fall out of love with him, that's the question how do i fall out of love with this guy? i feel i should explain first why i need to fall out of love with him. I have liked this guy...

He never even liked me so why do I feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I've had a huge crush on this guy all year. He would stare at me, but then look away really fast when I saw him. He could never speak to me and the few times that he did he looked at the ground or the wall. His friends even the ones I don’t know ...

Worries about my health...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I find it incredibly hard to exercise and lose weight, my family make it really hard for me, i HAVE to eat what they eat, and they both LOVE food, they only eat like pizzas and junk basically and i have no say in the matter, I’ve spoken to them bout ...

Do guys get intimidated by beautiful girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - many people(family,friends,strangers,boys) tell me i'm beautiful but i would say i'm just pretty.guys usually stare at me,smile at me,flirt with me and some of them even approach me.i get attention from them,even from those who are way older than ...

What should I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I went out with this boy but it only lasted a week because everyone was pretending to go out with me. I still like him and everyone can see it, they all say he likes me too but i don't know if i can trust him again. He's too afraid to say something ...

I get wet dreams and I want this to stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - hey im 13 and male i keep having wet dreams and sometimes the dreams have nothing to do with sex and i still have one and today i woke up den went back 2 sleep for ten minutes and it happened. i dont like it because i wake up feeling wet and dirty ...

16 and pregnant, and I can't get the morning after pill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - BIG BIG BIG problen im 16 and pregnant with my 19 year old cousins baby i know some people think its gross but get over it i cant take the morning after pill and i live in ireland so if i am going to have an abortion i have to travel know one knows ...

I'm 13, any ideas for masturbating as I'm not ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Hey i am a boy and 13 i get masturbating all the time i also masturbate alot im getting bored of plan wanking does any one know any new techniques or things to do im not ready for sex yet so can anyone give me some new ideas for masturbating or ...

Should I continue my relationship while at uni? It would be a LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months now and its going well. The only problem is that in september i will be going to uni and my chosen uni is about 5ish hours away from him. People keep asking me if we are going to keep seeing each ...

How to get through to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I have no idea what to do! I've had enough. This is basically the low-down: - He takes me for granted: For example, when I do things for him just because I want to, he doesn't assume that he should do something back for me to be fair. It's as if...

Should I carry on seeing my dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - my dad is in and out of rehab and he is always heavily dosed on medication. He has done some bad things in the past like hit my sister spend all our money on drugs. He has many mental illneses and when i was younger ,the doctors say he is officaly...

Are these symptoms of love or lust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - so me and this guy have just recently been talking well actually more weve been on 2 dates already[they were back to back] and he wants to hang out again today:] on the 2d date he kissed me like 9 times for our first kiss i was walking in fron...

Should I speak to him, and what can I say to make it sound natural?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay I really like this guy in the year above, but I haven't spoken to him for ages and he hasn't spoken to me Last time we spoke (like 9 months ago), we talked easily (but then i wasnt sure if i liked him in that way) I don't know if he hasnt s...

How far should I take things on our first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am going on a first date with a lad who i realy like he seems to like me too as he keeps asking how my love life is as if he is hinting to find out if i have a bf not sure how far to take things on our first date like hold his hand and do i kiss ...

How can I break up with my toxic group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I've know my friends for years now and I know what they are. From the start, they have been backstabbing one another. They seem nice and all but when you are gone, they'll start gossiping. No matter truth or rumors, they always spread them fast then ...

Do friends have oral sex? Can't girls make their own choices now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i have one question... do friends have oral sex? like normal friend, with no relationship at all. just friend. and is it wrong if the girl wants to stop it and try to value herself more and don't let him touch her anymore... is that a bad thing? or ...

Really paranoid boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so before i even met my 3 month boyfriend of today, i met my seriously best friend ever, but he is a boy. I tell him every little thing, and i honestly dont know what i would do without him. So i started dating my boyfriend and whenever i ...

Why does my stomach hurt after first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay, so i had sex for the first time yesterday. It was great and all and it didnt hurt when we did, but later on that day and today my stomach started hurting. Im just wondering if thats normal, since it was my fist time....

Is it just jail talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (?) - Hello iv bin with my boyfriend 8 months and he is in prison we were only together for a short while before he went inside but we really do get on well he says im diffrent to any one else hes been with and that i make him want to change he says h...

Violent past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - My new partner is really lovely and kind to me but i recently found out in his past relationship he was really violent and abusive. Do you think he will be the same with me or do you think he has changed? ...

With her for 2 years, now she's changing, avoids me, what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years, I am dreadfully attached. I have come to realize she doesnt want to see me all that much, she is very big on being together on birthdays.. but hers was today and she didnt want me to see her.. she keeps ...

She is more experienced sexually and she brings up sexual acts with past lovers, how do I deal with this, without screwing up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - The relationship I'm carrying with my fiance is great. We seem to get along as perfect as they can come. The only problem is me. My fiance was very sexually active in her past, and it makes me feel awkward because it seems that everything we do is ...

My girlfriend's choice of clothing is too revealing, we argue, any suggestions how to deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for some time now, and she's been putting on some clothing i don't like her to wear because it is a bit revealing. I tried talking to her about it, but we just ended up arguing, and she said that it was what she liked an...

My boyfriend's parents may break up, and I want to help him, what can I do to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - my boyfriends parents are prolly gonna split up and he doesnt want them to. he has no clue why they will and they have been married for about 19 years and they are a great family! i mean yeah they have their ups and downs, but all families do! ...

I'm there for her, I cheer her up, but I am confused, don't really know if she likes me or not, what's your thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Theres this girl that I like alot, and cant get her out of my mind and cant stop thinking about. I told her I liked her and that i couldnt stop thinking about her.. she said i was the sweetest guy she knew.. i asked her how she felt about me and she ...

Guys, what are the best turn-ons, that you wish girls knew ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

10 June 2009 (?) - Guys, what are the best turn-ons that you wish girls knew? Hanging out, making out, and beyond... -GG...

Is he a druggie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I've only been on a couple of dates with this new guy. I find him really smart, we get on well etc. Actually, he seems to be so much like me. He made an offhand comment once about scoring some "rocks" which was sort of a joke I guess but when I ...

I want to be perfect!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - heres my issue: im skinny no hips no butt poofy hair when not scrunched with gel or straightened. over this summer(2 months) i want to get atleast a bit of hips a little bit of butt gain 15 lbs and find something to make my hair less frizzy and ...

I love him but he doesn't love me back and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I am a sixteen year old gurl and i love this guy, i cant stop, I cry over him a lot, I've liked him for almost this whole year and he said he doesn't like me and I don't know what the hell to do! Help me plz I am going crazy here!...

What did I do that got him turned on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend were sat on the grass just talking and he suddenly stops talking half way through a sentence, leans over and kisses me and he gets turned on, i was wondering why he got turned on and it is a good thing or bad? ...

One silly night that was a drunken mistake!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friend's boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good ...

If I'm 11 weeks pregnant shouldn't I be noticing more symptoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I'm worried that I'm pregnant. Iv have sex with my boyfriend about 5 times now. We'd been going out for 3 years so I felt we were ready. The last time I had my period it was completely messed up. I had 3 periods in 5 weeks? I know thats not ...

How many inches away is my hymen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - So how many inches away is my hymen? I've never had sex. I'm just curious and know i don't need an explanation about how the hymen is a layer of tissue at the entrance of your vagina and stuff, just how many inches it is before the entrance of ...

My boyfriend's friend...

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

10 June 2009 (F) - I used to have a crush on my boyfriend's best friend. While my boyfriend and I were in a fight I asked his friend if he'd want to go out with me if my boyfriend and I broke up. He said kinda, but ever since he's always telling me nasty things that ...

Is it okay not to have Foreskin at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm 17 and I'm sort of having an identity crisis, cause my penis does not have any foreskin. Is this normal?...

My career?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (?) - in college, i would like to major in art. when i'm older, i would like to work at disney world and design the scenery around the rides, (not architecture, like paint it or flowers) or make and paint the signs for the rides..and put like make up on ...

No inclination to actually have sex, but horny just the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Okay. So I masturbate quite often and frequently fantasize while I'm doing it about being WITH a...ya know, a guy...but I cannot imagine actual sex feeling good; rubbing myself is nice and I am your typical teenager--I get horny just like, listening ...