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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

If I chose not to have sex how do I find the willpower to wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3298 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - I'm 16 in my first year of college and I'm still a virgin (and proud to be one actually). But everyday becomes a little harder even though I know staying a virgin until I meet "the one" or near enough is the right thing to do. I haven't even kissed ...

How can I tighten up my vaginal muscles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - I did sex before two months . Now I am in a another relationship. And we will get married in 6 months . But I don't want to feel embarrassed when we're having sex. So I want to tighten my vagina when I sex with him . P...

Why is he, all of a sudden, interested in trying? Is sex, the first time, sometimes not successful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - My bf never used to be very much into having sex. We've been dating for over 3 yrs now. We are both college graduates. I'm working before going to med school. He's getting ready for law school. One of the biggest problems in our relationship was...

Slam bam thank you ma'am is all I get!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for around 5 months, we've been great, had various issues which soon got resolved. When we first got together we had sex constantly, he would always perform oral sex and we'd have an amazing time, but over ...

I have a very big problem with men who have a history of one-night stands. Am I giving myself no hope of finding love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I’m 23 and I’ve never been in a serious relationship. I hope it’s just a matter of not meeting the right person, but I’m beginning to worry that I’ll never meet anyone. Because of my family and religion, I have very strong values. I like the...

No matter what I do, the face of this other guy keeps on intruding into my thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I choose to figure out what went wrong with my marriage that had led me to have an emotional affair with this guy, other than the fact that my husband and I are incompatible. I'd like to believe that I had actually loved him and that I still ca...

I am the parent to my teen brother - our parents are deceased. My brother is now 14. How do I raise and discuss talking about sex and all that to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

28 October 2015 (M) - When i was 16 i held my baby brother in my arms and said to dad "god he's small, i'm not baby sitting". Well i think i changed his nappies more times then mum used to. Honestly a few years later when i went off to university my biggest joy coming h...

I feel like my Bf is pulling away. He rarely instigates sex now. Am I being needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. We've been together just over three years. Had our ups and downs. Just the past few weeks he doesn't really respond to texts and home calls. I mean we live together but he works until after 9 pm then ...

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be ...

Is it possible to loose your virginity to someone without being emotionally attached?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - Hi, im 18 a virgin ,by choice, but i met this guy im thinking of loosing it to, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship but stills wants to have sex. on one hand im thinking to do it because i know the sex would be AMAZING so i would have a ...

Why does he reject me for sex but I never reject him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

27 October 2015 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for nine months now. however with our sex life things have gone from having sex almost every other day to sex only on weekends and sometimes i want to have sex during the week but when i try to touch him or ...

I can't have sex with my GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

26 October 2015 (M) - Hey, I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 25 we've been dating for about 6 months but I'm worried she might dump me soon because I wont have sex with her. I really like her and I think she feels the same but recently im getting the impression that ...

I'm going away on a "dirty weekend", and don't know what to do !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - hi, Im going on a "dirty" weekend away with my bf and we haven't been away in a long time. I want to make it really special and sexy in the bedroom but havent really ever done something like that before... I have bought some sexy suspenders...

Did she enjoy the sex? Or is she just trying to be nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

26 October 2015 (M) - Hello dear cupid . I have a nice girl am dating right now, she even was the one who confessed her love to me on text. i have developed these intense feeling for her and we have grown so much fund of each other. sometimes she text me that she wish to ...

The worst sex I've ever had! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

26 October 2015 (F) - Help!!! I'm stuck in a rut with my sex life. I became sexually active at fifteen and have had a few sexual partners since. I've now been with my current boyfriend for 13 months and we have the worst sex life I've ever had. I've tried everything to ...

I do not want to be hurt again by my first love. Any words of wisdom, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - I have not long met up again with my first love. It was passionate buthe ended up really hurting me. We separated for over 20yrs and I have a grown family. We linked again a few months ago and the chemistry was still there. A few months later be...

I can't last long in bed and I know I'm disappointing my girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

24 October 2015 (M) - Hey All, First time posting here and I just want to thank anyone who answers in advance! I'll start off by saying that I have the most beautiful, adorable and amazing girlfriend in the world. She's really very fun, understanding and very honest ...

My guy says he'll give me oral sex if I shave but I don't want to do that

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

24 October 2015 (F) - Been with my partner for just over a year, my only problem is...I've gone down on him many times, but he has never gone down on me. He told me he would touch me "down there" more often even possibly go down on me if I.....Shaved. ...

How do I get this guy to listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - More guy troubles/ rant! Let's call his guy M. M and I have been seeing each other for a while now. For a while now, I've been feeling like I'm nothing but a booty call to him. I just want to hang out with him and everytime he initiates sex. Don't ...

Would a one night stand with a divorced man be wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) - Someone I've known for years (although he's more of an acquaintance than a friend) recently got a divorce because his wife cheated on him. I've always liked the guy, he is very attractive, and we flirted, but never anything more than that. Well...

Do I stay friends with people who sneak around behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

23 October 2015 (M) - Hi agony aunts, I recently had two female housemates move in (about 2 months ago) and started hooking up with one of them for a few weeks until she decided it wasn't what she wanted. In this time I had developed some pretty strong feelings for her ...

The ex and a FWB relationship. I want her to be honest with me and not jerk me around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

22 October 2015 (M) - Okay, so thank you all for reading and responding, I truly appreciate it. Okay, so what I'm going through is not a huge deal but I do not want to make it into a big deal. Some information about me: I am 21, senior at college. So basically, my ex gi...

Am I being played? I've me a wonderful girl, but she's unhappily married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - I met a wonderful girl at the end of june, and i have fallen so in love with her. and she said she feels the same way too. But she is married and unhappy. so now nearly 4 months in to this crazyness im feeling like im being played. we meet u...

Our sex drives are not aligned. Is there any way I can lower my sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

21 October 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been together since high school and we have a great relationship all Expect for one thing. Our sex drives are not at the same level. I'm not worried he is getting it any where else or anything like that. I know he loves me and ...

How will it effect me if I watch my wife giving birth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

19 October 2015 (M) - My wife is extreme gorgeous and she is currently 8 months pregnant with our first child. I will admit I was kinda worried about the whole pregnancy thing and how it would effect our sex life but it has only made it better. I am very turned on with ...

Having sex with him was so unsexy I felt like a was doing a shft at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - I have recently started dating again and have been seeing this one guy in particular for a couple of months now. Last night things progressed further than they have and we moved to the bedroom, however it was a bit of a disaster in my eyes. He s...

Why does he prefer to masturbate than have sexual things with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - Why does he prefer to masturbate than have sexual things with me? I know it's natural for everyone but it makes me feel rejected because then hw doesn't want anything from me. It makes me feel sick. I don't want to feel bad about him doing it. What ...

I love him but I don't want to be in a sexless relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3328 days ago

19 October 2015 (F) - Dear cupid, i am really stuck and dont know what to do. I have been with my BF for 2years now and for the past year or so there has been very little sex, ive tried litterally everything and he always has excuses or very rarely wants to do anything...

I'm not ready for sex until I'm sure he's the one! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

18 October 2015 (F) - I'm 22yrs in a relationship with a boy, who is ready to do anything for me and keep telling me he has gotten to his last bustop. He those ask me for sex But he is not pressuring me to give him my virginity and I'm scared of losing him because he ...

Opened up to him about my vulnerabilities about having sex and now he says he might leave me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3327 days ago

17 October 2015 (F) - Hi! I have been here before but it was now some time ago. I met a very nice man about 2 years ago and things went fine for quite some time but then I started not wanting to have sex, even feeling very bad about having it. This had happened in ...

Is he just playing around with me while waiting for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I haven't had a relationship in four years, and my last one started very fast, so I think I'm a little lost with my current situation and would love some help. Around mid June, I met this guy online. We exchanged a few messages and met in pers...

How can I feel like less of a failure towards my Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - I've been with my S/O for five months now and recently found out that this whole time I haven't made her cum. She took my virginity so I understand that I am not super experienced bUT I can't help to feel useless and like a failure. She says ...

Suddenly I've developed Erectile dysfunction. I feel I'm too young to have this happen. What could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - AUNTS I NEED HELP I'm 22 years old. I shouldn't be suffering this right? I always get a very hard erection anytime anywhere Even very little things can make me hard.. i'm equally attracted to my beautiful girl friend But recently.. at lea...

First time sex, and not wishing to cause my Gf to get pregnant - lots of questions, if you can advise please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

16 October 2015 (M) - Hi Cupids, I am a 22 year old and my girlfriend is 21 year old. I need some honest opinion about sex. I live in a more conservative country, Singapore, where we are told to have sex after marriage. Recently, my girlfriend and I have mo...

Could it be masturbation causing bad luck

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

15 October 2015 (M) - Could it be Masturbation causing me bad luck?? Im one person who hated wanking n everything those days went on very well. Happened one day when i got some advice form a friend who told me that jerkin yourself helps to last long during sex. De...

Is he thinking of her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - During sex my boyfriend has always made it important to look in each others eyes. Now after he has cheated when hes on me he looks up or down or above my head. I believe hes thinking of her.am I right?...

Do I sacrifice the dream of an amazing connection with someone that may never happen or do I stay knowing that will never happen with my husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - I have been married 20 years and am feeling totally conflicted qs to whether to stay or go out into the world on my own now our Holden are grown My husband is a good man and we get on well. We also have sex that is ok but I would t call it passiona...

He goes too deep, how can I make it easier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

12 October 2015 (F) - I hope someone can help. My husband and I have hot sessions in the bed room department but my main issue is getting him to come. He prefers to be mega deep penetrating but I find it really uncomfortable. Does anyone have any advice on how to ...

I can't stay hard when my girl gives me a BJ, help me please

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

12 October 2015 (M) - hey guys i'm new here and i don't know where else to go to. i need some advice. i've been in an amazing relationship with this girl and she is the jewel of my life. i have a vast sexual history, however she does not. she is so new to the whole sex ...

Is the focus on sex typical for this stage of the relatioinship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3336 days ago

10 October 2015 (F) - I am a very thoughtful person, in the sense that I spend a lot of time picking apart every little detail and analyzing it. Sometimes this is good, sometimes it is bad and I can recognize that. When romantic relationships are concerned, I often spend ...

I hate hearing about how happy they are in the bedroom! What do I do to get over this hurt and jealousy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - What can I do? I hate hearing about their sex lives and I'm hurt enough! How do I stop thinking about my ex and his new woman? My ex boyfriend was very sexual - sex obsessed I would say. I didn't date him for long as he wanted to move too quic...

I'm frustrated and tired of being the one to always initiate sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

9 October 2015 (F) - hi everyone hope you can help. me and my boyfriend have been together a very long time now, we are very much in love and happy.. however! we seem to never ever have sex and when we do it doesnt last very long and its usually rubbish and then...

Does he still find me attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my bf for two and a half years and it's been the best, two nights ago whilst going down on me he started to masturbate. I thought this was strange as he'd never done it before but I never thought anything of it. last night I tried ...

She cheated. At what point will I know I can get past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

7 October 2015 (M) - Hi guys. I could do with some help. My Girlfriend cheated on me 15 months ago, and i found out around 6 months ago. IT's a pretty unique situation so I'll try to explain, We've been together 8 years, and she's been best friends with this guy ...

What is this "dirty wet spot" after oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and every single time he eats me out it leaves this "dirty" wet spot in the area. And I'm wondering when it is. I've never had a problem with hygiene so I know that's not a answer. Someone please help cause ...

We never have sex and now another guy is interested in me! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - In a bit of a dilema! i currently have a boyfriend and hes lovely hes sweet thoughtful and really in love with me, the only thing is we barely ever have sex, ive repeatidly told him about this and yeah yeah ill change i havnt brought it up for ...

How do I know I'm reaching the cum stage? I can't feel it reaching that point.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - Okay when my bf and I are having sex he asks me all the time did you cum, and I tell him that I don't know. And he says how don't you know if you cummed or not, and I say I don't know. He knows that i do cum because he can feel it, but i can neve...

We had an amazing night together, but my friends tell me he's only after sex and a visa! How do I ask him if his interest in me is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - So I am a holiday rep working in turkey! I met a guy at the begining of season and we have been talking ever since due to me being moves resort i only got to see him twice in four months but now i have been moved back to the same resort and get to ...

My partner is a virgin. She keeps stalling about starting our physical relationship. What is there to "think about"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

4 October 2015 (M) - My partner nearly admitted to me that she is a virgin as I think she is as when I approached the subject of us taking our relationship a little further and asked did she want to stay the night with her replying with could she think about. What i...

I think my boyfriend is bi, should he have told me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Somebody told me that they think that my boyfriend is bi and i found from a face book profile saying that he was in to woman and men and now my sister said that he should have told me is she right....