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writes:hi,Im going on a "dirty" weekend away with my bf and we haven't been away in a long time. I want to make it really special and sexy in the bedroom but havent really ever done something like that before...I have bought some sexy suspenders and undergarments but don't know when to wear them and what to do really... i see it on TV all the time but i have no idea how to be seductive like that.. I could wear them under my dress before we go for dinner and then when we come back he could see them or once we return back to the room I can put them on...What else could we do or could I do with him... ive given him a massage before and we arent big drinkers so drinking games is a bit weird...any tips pleaseeeee.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Slippers +, writes (28 October 2015):
Why not get a little maids outfit from Ann summers.. and when back get changed for bed in the bathroom .. and come out with your duster saying " you called for maid service, you dirrty boy " .. It doesn't matter if you laughing or blushing or both its suppose to be fun.
Then say to him ." Get on the bed .. I deal with you later " and strut around the room bending over lots .. give him cheeky smiles over your shoulder.. lol pretending to be dusting haha .
Then say .. what do we have here and dust over his crotch .. lift or open his shirt or tshirt and lightly dust his chest esp over his chest area .. when they become perky as mens do as well say something like " oo you slut you " haha ..
As you do this the more in control you will become .. you led him if he touches .. say " no bi no bad boy " and push hid arms down until you Want him to play ..
It's an idea ..
Take care sweetie have fun ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2015): Agree with poster above re the lingerie- have them on already under your clothes. If they are holdups though make sure you have a suspender belt\attachments to secure them up- walking around even the 'hold ups' always fall down I've found!
Relax and enjoy. Its supposed to be fun. You won't be disturbed so you can have a laugh and do it where ever and whenever you want ;)
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (27 October 2015):
I am a big lingerie fan and I had a girlfriend who liked to reciprocate. When I would pick her up at her place she would sometimes put on something underneath her regular clothes...something that I could feel thru her clothes when I hugged her hello. We'd go out to dinner then a movie and I'd be going crazy, not waiting to get home and tear off her clothes. If you put on something sexy and then give him just a little taste, he might be going crazy for a few hours! This would also get around any awkwardness you might feel about putting on the items after you get to the bedroom.
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