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writes:I have been with my bf for two and a half years and it's been the best, two nights ago whilst going down on me he started to masturbate. I thought this was strange as he'd never done it before but I never thought anything of it. last night I tried to give him a bj but he couldn't get hard, he then went down on me and masturbated again. we had sex but he was only semi hard. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive anymore as sex recently has been mainly very rough fast missionary like he wants to just get it over with. really needing advice on what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2015): My boyfriend started doing this before and I asked him why and it was because he was really tired and stressed with work. We used to have long passionate sessions and I found it weird when he started doing that. But it made sense, when men are tired they sometimes find it difficult staying hard. Is he stressed with work or anything else in life. Hey at least he's still going down on you and having sex, there are loads of questions on here where women say their partners stop wanting it all together or go and masturbate on their own. I don't know if you should ask him about it just yet as that may make him worry when you have sex about him not staying hard. If he's only just started doing this give it a while to see if the situation improves x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (8 October 2015):
 I suggest that you print out a copy of this submittal.... hand it to him .... and ask: "Hunchy-bunchy, I wrote this. Can we talk?" That should get you (and HIM) on the road to a resolution of this matter....
Good luck...
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (8 October 2015):
 Probably not you at all. Just because he hasn't done it before i wouldn't worry about because you can't keep doing the do the same old same old, he has found something new that takes his fancy. Maybe he watches too much porn. Too much can do strange things to a couples sex life. Enhance it or ruin it. Have a talk and ask him why the change
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