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Sex: Help and advice

Cheating on b/f fell in love with co-worker but he used me for sex only

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21 September 2010 (F) - I have a long time relationship with my bf and almost year ago I fall in love with my co-worker. He has a gf.We had a sex...I think for him it was only sexual, for me...Ilove him so much! Now he is ignoring me and I feel like my soul hurts. I want ...

Please help.. cheating boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I really need some help. My partner of 8 years told me two days ago that he chated on me three years ago when I was living in Russia for 6 months. He was lonely, and resentful and had been drinking and had taken some drugs and so he called a pros...

My husband tells me not to move during sex. It's strange.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2579 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - In my past relationships, I never had a problem with a man stopping me from moving with him during sex. My husband tells me not to move, and let him do the work. Do anyone know a reason why? It's strange...

Why can't I climax from sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I know this is a common problem and still I cannot seem to find the answer I am looking for. Are there any special techniques to help make me come during sex? I enjoy sex so much with my partner and feel fully satisfied after, yet I never climax. ...

FWB relationship--i do not want to feel like I am just good enough for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I have been in a FWB relationship for four months. It is a long distance thing and from the beginning was clear that it will never be a real relationship. He started talked to me every day, chasing me for months and caring about me. He was very ...

Hes pretty much got a whole porno store should I just move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - My situation is this....I am 46 and my boyfriend of almost 2 years (whom lives with me in my house) he is almost 41. Little age difference there but not a LOT. Well, the first week after he moved in, I caught him in the office at his computer with a ...

He put 4 fingers inside of me????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, and have been sexually active with him for about 8 months. On Monday we had sex and half way through he pulled out and fingered me for a short while, until I orgasmed, ...

My wife decieved me about having an abortion and an STD in the past, and now I am struggling to forgive and forget.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - When my wife and I were still dating she told me she had been with lots of guys. I asked her if she had ever had a STD or been pregnant before, she said no. Two weeks later the told me she had herpes, one week later she found out she was pregnant. ...

How can I tell this player I don't want to be his bit of fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I've been fooling around with a guy (kissing and some oral) he doesn't want a relationship just fun, I have always known this, and i don't normally do this sort of thing but i do like him, he wants us to have sex and I really like him but I am ...

Why would a man turn a woman down even when he is really horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - why man turn a women down when they are really horny? is it the woman or is something else???...

Why do I not last very long in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - when i am going to sex with my girlfriend my sex is no longer.only 1 minutes.can you give me a suggetion....

I feel bored to tears with everything in my life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - I need some advice. Have you ever felt bored to tears with everything in your life? Interacting with the kids, my professional life, dinner parties with friends, playing poker with the boys, going on a trip to see a big NFL game - and worse of ...

Is it all women, or just my wife that have boring sexual fantasies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - So, my wife really gets off on hearing about my sexual fantasies. She often asks me to tell her, " what were you thinking about last time you masturbated.". Then I will tell her, WHATEVER it was, be it having sex with our next door neighbor, the ...

On average, how often does a woman in her mid-40's want to orgasm per week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - What is the average, or "normal" amount of times a woman in her mid-40's would want to orgasm? I know for me, the " poisons have to leave the building" at least 3 times per week - whether with my wife's help or solo if need be. Do women have a ...

Mediocre sex... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - So i've been seeing this guy for quite some time now and i honestly love him, but the sex isnt as good as i imagined, hes about 5-6 inches but i just dont get pleasure unless he slams into me. what can i do to make things better, or even what do i ...

My boyfriend takes ages to cum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend takes ages to cum. We are 16 and lost our virginities to each other. I've heard guys first times last like.. 30 seconds, he was more like 30 minutes! And now he lasts up to 2 hours inside me! I enjoy the sex, but Im just VERY ...

Are women satisfied with average size penis or do they fantasize about bigger penises?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - hello everybody, thanks for the time i would spend in order to answer my question :D mu question is mostly for women who are married to men with average penis size, i just wanna know are the women in this situation really satisfied with their hu...

I still really fancy my ex BF, and want sex with him, but am still emotionally attached!! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - PLEASE HELP!! I split with my BF after a lot of fall out's over the last few months. He has told me that he is not ready for commitment and that we are over, and he said that I should know this, as he has not slept with me for a number of weeks. We ...

Should I go ahead and have sex with this guy when he doesn't want a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I'm stuck and need advice, I have never had a proper boyfriend and I am in my late 20s, I just never feel attracted to anyone or if I do they never feel the same. I feel for someone at work and he said he was interested in me but doesn't want...

I am gay but about to marry a woman, does anyone have any advice on how to make my marriage work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - hi, im jay 28 yrs old gay and dont have any feeling for girls. but i have too marry a girl very soon, i have already stopped my gay activities and want to live like other married couples and i have heared that many gays are married and have kids ...

My friend wants to have a threesome!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - I have these friend that wants me to have threesome with him, but he is married, the party is his friend a male, and I'm confused since I have nt tried it before, so what should I do??...

Does the fact that we had more intimate sex mean he has actual feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - Hey, there's a saying that says "actions speak louder than words"....how true is that? The reason I'm asking is because this guy I used to be involved with earlier this year is a lot more affectionate and intimate in bed than he EVER used to be....

After two years, only twice a month! Why isn't she interested in sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - Hello everyone, this is my first post and this is my first question. When I first got together with my girlfriend the sex was great... every opportunity we had we did it. It's been 2 years and 3 months now and we are both 18 years old, but now we b...

I have 4 guys after me! what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - This is kind of a long story but I'm gonna try to make it as short as possible. I don't know how but I now have four guys in the equation. Let me talk about the first one. He's my boyfriend, and we've been dating for a little over a month. We had ...

He's a one minute man! how can I make it last longer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy for some months now. We met in March and we've made out a couple of times, etc. So this past weekend, one thing led to another and we had sex. It was embarrassing. For the guy. So he's pretty well-endowed, bu...

Is it just my hormones that are making me feel this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 September 2010 (M) - hi im 15, well basically ive been sort of anxious and annoyed, about my sexuality because ive always liked girls from a young age and always want a girlfriend, but i noticed by accident(lol honestly) i managed to get on gay porn when i was looking ...