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My girlfriend and I would like to have a threesome. Is this healthy for our relationship?

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Question - (31 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A male Antigua and Barbuda age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my gf and i were discussing our sexual fantacies and we both realised that we both would like to have a threesome but with each of us present when it goes down i would like to know if this is healthy for our relationship

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (31 July 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntIf you both feel comfy. But remember if you do it, can you handle watching another man give her an orgasm? Or making her moan in a way you never have?

If you can handle it, then do it. Ive had threesomes before, but the participants were not involved in any committed relationship with one another, so I have a different take on it.

So tread very carefully, for if you have any lack of confidence in your relationship this will most certainly bring it to light.

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2009):

kayla20 agony auntits perfectly healthy if you both agree to it however it could cause some problems afterwards as your gf might think you are doing more to the other person than her so if you do go ahead with it id say make it equal make your gf feel wanted and loved

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

In a word, No. Keep it as a fantasy.

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