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writes:Ok I have a girlfriend right? And we hook up or cuddle or whatever you want to call it, and when we do it gets really intense but, I havent had sex with her yet. Shes had it before but Im still a virgin. Now the thing is a couple of hours after we've hooked up I feel sick! I mean my entire body hurts and my "part" hurts real bad also. Its not because shes grabbed it or anything it just does... This has happened a couple of times before with 1 of my ex's but Im afraid that this is going to affect me in the future in case I decide to have sex with my current girl... can anyone tell me why this happens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): It sounds like your getting blue balls. If you have an erection lasting more than an hour and you don't cum then you will get a swelling in your testicles and it's gonna hurt. I've never had swelling but I know the exact pain your talking about, stuff like dry humping is great but if you never get to finish your gonna hurt later.
To remedy this until you and your girlfriend start taking things further, try just masturbating afterward.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Well, I stand corrected, The Ice did work for me once, it was more like 4 hours, and nothing shattered. I can certainly see that it wouldn't work for everyone. The alternative method is usually effective. Sometimes needs more than one dose.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (31 July 2009):
Oh yes, Blue Balls or pelvic congestion. Look it up. if you are not a wanker, or you object to that solution, an ice pack on the affected part will give you some relief.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): I'll have some of what you're smoking, q1605! Must be top grade stuff.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): Yep - classic 'Blue Balls' symptoms. Go and have a wafty crank and it'll disappear quite quickly.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 This is totally normal and used to happen to me when I was young. it is a build up of adrenaline and sexual tension and with women gives them intense stomach ache and sickness. This passes if you masterbate - all totally natural.
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (31 July 2009):
 maybe your sexually frustrated and want to have sex with her have u considered it
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