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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I wonder if it is worth it to dump my bf of 8 months to go back to my ex, who threw me out of his house, after leaving together for 2 years and being engaged for 4, and after all that he tells me he asked me to marry him because his aunt recommend it to him. He bought me a car, I had a maid, he paid some of my bills, he has given a lot of help economically speaking, but I compare my new bf, he does not have a car, a normal job, but treats me right and has asked me to move in with him, when I almost begged my ex to move in with him because I lived with my aunt, who is dead now, and she treated me right, I just did not like the environment. My ex is in his 50`s and lives well, my bf is in his 40`s and it is just starting to do something for his future. Should I risk my love life? when I slept with my ex and felt nothing, but deep down inside I feel I love him, or stay with my bf who makes me get great orgasms, but I do not feel the same for him.I am getting crazy and I need help.My ex has asked me to marry him and have the kid I always dreamed of. My bf has asked me to live with him. Is economical situatiin more important than being with somebody who does not have anything? What if my bf leaves my country, he is American, well both my ex and my bf, oh Jesus! Please somebody tell me something.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Only you can make that choice. In todays climate I would be inclined to go for the ex! But money wont make you happy way down the line. If they make you cringe when they touch you, how are you suppose to have a baby with them, and talking of babies, how unfair would that be to risk having your ex as a father when you dont know if you will be able to stomach staying with him?
Probably the new guy is a better bet. He's only 40. As long as he's not a lazy so and so and has a job, what does it matter what he earns, you can share financial responsibility for things, thats normal. And he can learn to drive!
C xxxxx
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