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writes:I lost my virginity last month, on Sept. 13th, but a week before that I had my period. So I should be expecting it soon, but for some reason it hasn't come yet, and now i am worried that I might be pregnant. However, i just began university, and i became close friends with girls, and i realize that your cycles begin syncing up once you are close to the girls, but I'm not sure if i am pregnant. Like i don't get any symptoms at all, and however, my boyfriend and I did use a condom, but he also cummed in me too, so I don't know what to do.Then today, we had sex again, our second time since we had our first in September, and this time we changed positions where I was on top, we used a condom, and he came in me this time too, but then he went off to clean himself up, and he noticed on the condom that there was different fluids on the outside of the condom, and that he noticed 2 specs of something on his pubic hair, he mentioned it to me, and I got scared, so did he, so we went and bought Plan B. Now I already took it like immediately once we got it.(BTW the condoms never broke in any of these situations) But I don't know, if i am pregnant or not? And we are very scared, because: a) I should be getting my period right nowb) the situation that occurred todayandc) I took Plan B ....Also, the fluids I told him, it might've been mine, because this time it didn't hurt after a couple of thrusts, because I realized that I was well lubricated, unlike the first time, so it might've been my substance...however, he said that it was on his pubic hair too, so I am very unsure.So I don't know if I am pregnant or not, should I take a test? What should I do?
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reader, IRDave  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 You know, I'm sure you're not pregnant but why not just get a test anyway? If you're a worrier you could have a couple hidden away in a draw for the future, this would save the needless time between buying a kit where you would worry like heck.
Did you know that your period can stop or even skip due to stress and anxiety? The irony is that if you're worrying about being pregnant it can make you miss your period and then you can worry even more! So do yourself a favour and just buy a test.
It's very much more than likely that it is your fluid on the outside of the condom and in his pubic hair. When girls climax they can positively gush with fluid, (Check out female ejaculation information) so that's nothing to be concerned about.
The most important thing is don't worry and don't get upset!
Let us know how it goes.
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reader, meforyou +, writes (8 October 2008):
u should take a test n find out if u r or not, good luck either way
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (8 October 2008):
 hrm condoms arnt 100% effect although their is no reason why you should be althought stress/worry can delay your period. i would say take a pregnancie test follow their instructions that way you can be sure and not have to worry.. next i would say before you have sex again go on the pill or the implannon this will lower your pregnancie rate. good luck aphex xx
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