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writes:I've decided that I just want to be friends with someone where the only other 2 times we've met we've hooked up. I don't know why I made it so easy for this person, I'm usually not that type of girl. We didn't actually have sex, just performed oral on each other. The thing is, I don't like that I made it so easy for someone, so I'm just going to tell them the next time we talk that I've decided that I don't want this type of FWB relationship in my life right now and if they want to be friends then thats cool and if they don't want to be friends then that's cool too. Do you think that if we remain friends after this, that this guy will always look at me as just a sex object since that's how it's been the past two times? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): A cat who has had cream once will definitely want to eat cream again.get what I mean.Be firm.you need not even be friends with this guy.Friendship between ex-es never work out because there is always a sexual tension involved.From the girl's side of view its possible but not from the guy's side of view.
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reader, Plain Jane  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 He is obvious knows how to talk and make you kneel down on him ! he is using you...I am so sorry....but once he thinks he is easy to get you, he'll think this way all the time.
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reader, Gingirl +, writes (8 October 2008):
Hate to break it to you, but he will always see you as a sex object. Time to make new friends....
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reader, Faybelline  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 I think if you tell him how you feel about the situation then there's no reason why he should view you as a sex object.
I must admit that there is one of my male friends who I slept with 4 years ago and I know very well that he thinks I'm slutty and easy and has no respect for me as a person, just as a sex object, even though it was only once and so long ago.
That's not to say it will be the same with the guy you know; he may well be a decent guy and respect your wishes and not judge you by what has happened.
Good Luck :)
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