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writes:Me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for the first time, since im a virgin im scared to know whether i will bleed or it will hurt as ive heard from my friends, im totally ready for sex just have my worries that it will hurt, does your first time hurt?
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reader, Kiche  +, writes (28 November 2008):
Personally my first time hurt alot and did bleed a fair bit, but he was just very rough i think. Ask him to go slow and be gentle, it'll still probably hurt a little, but it shouldn't be too bad. Also, make sure your into it, the more turned on you are, the less it'll hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): well my first time didn't hurt as bad, because foreplay is always the way to go.. don't rush into the sex part yet... do at least 30-1 hour of foreplay and make sure your ready... if not then lube will be very helpful. you don't always bleed.. i didn't not one bit, and i was worried that i would but i didn't. it wasn't as pleasurable till about the 4th or 5th time i had sex.. soo if you don't enjoy it the first few times then don't worry its normal, just give it a few more tries.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (14 October 2008):
lol that male reader made me laugh. "may go unconcious" what a load of rubbish. yes it will probably hurt and you may bleed a little after, but it's not even the same amount as a period. so don't panic if u do bleed. i did and at first i thought "omg he has torn me" but then i calmed myself down and thought oh no it just normal. the first time was uncomfortable and all i kept thinking was "wish he would hurry up and cum already" but then my ex was very good and he did say if i wanted to stop at anytime then i should just say. so remember if it gets too much just tell him to stop, u could always finish him off orally or with your hand. but after the 1st time it is very enjoyable, so don't worry about it and just go slow and make sure u r ready. don't let him rush u.
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reader, penguin64 +, writes (8 October 2008):
 just go slowly. and use lube. u prob will bleed. i didnt cos i was already broken...but it did hurt a bit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): I am a male, indeed it kinda hurts and bleeding follows, if not controled or stoped with either tissue or any soft materia could leed to unconciousness. It reduces with time as the vagina expands at subsequent mating. It is a must thing for every woman, if not today, then tomorrow. Beg your guy to take it cool with you.
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 For the vast majority of people the answer is yes, it will hurt and yes, you will bleed. Everybody is differant though and some have reported very little pain or bleeding. For me, the first time was quite painful and I bled a bit. Intercourse continued to be initially painful for the next 4 or 5 encounters that got more pleasurable as the encounter continued. Each time the pain was less and of shorter duration until I was finally stretched enough that I began to just experience pleasure without the initial onset of pain.
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