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writes:Ok I need an honest answer from the ladies and guys if you have been in my situation..Basically I'm cumming pretty fast lately, like 2-3 minutes, and it's becoming a habit. Which is weird because I used to be able to last longer. But now I cant. I don't know why.but anyway, my question is - If a guy is in my situation, would the girl be happy if I pleasured her with my hands and orally as well as penetrative?To make up for it...Because at the end of the day I want to make her feel good as well as myself :-)so yeh..
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reader, ninja-style +, writes (14 October 2008):
ninja-style is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont know how or why, but it went well.
best yet ;-)
thanks guys for the advice
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reader, ninja-style +, writes (10 October 2008):
ninja-style is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone, will let you know how it goes...prob tommrow!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): Hey Ninja, you asked for advice, and we tried to help you as best as we could. Please don't forget to update your post and tell us how everything worked out for you.
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reader, chandra Mcmillan +, writes (8 October 2008):
 You can try anything in the bedroom and your girlfriend will most likely enjoy both oral sex as well as using your fingers or even sex toys.I know you said the question is wrong but there are things you can do to help with your stamina, if you want to.Whilst you have a hard penis squeez your bottom together and this will lift your penis. Almost like penis sit ups. Once you have dont this for a bit you can use a towel to put on it as a weight and lift it like this. You will find it makes you last much longer and you can control when you wanna cum. I hope this has helped.Gud luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): Yes.. If you pleasure a girl in this way she will feel happy, and she will feel that you are respectful and kind. Many men don't care to see to a woman's pleasure..
Cumming to quickly... You present as aged 16-17 (overage) and currently living in the UK. At your age it is perfectly normal to "cum" too fast. Your young, your fertile, you are at your sexual peak. You also have very little experience and less discipline than an older man. You get excited quickly and then you can't control yourself. This is perfectly normal, many young guys are exactly like you.
The solution is for you to get older, wiser and more experienced in sex. Since that won't help you now, there are other techniques that you could try. Jack McVeigh is right, finding something boring to do with your mind will help to slow things right down. This is an ideal time to work on mathematics and solving hard problems. That is as boring as hell, but takes concentration and will help you to stop thinking about how much you enjoy sex.
You could also try to have an orgasm first, and then start foreplay and sex again later. You will find your second orgasm much slower and you will find you last much longer..
Lastly, you can also try stopping sex in the middle, and going back to foreplay. In this way, you and your girlfriend can have fun, and orgasm and penetrative sex is not the only thing on your mind...
As Tish says.. please use condoms, to prevent against disease and pregnancy, and don't worry, your normal, go and have fun, you will get slower in time.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 One more thing, following that old adage 'ladies first' might not be a bad idea in your situation.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 October 2008):
To answer your question, I think that yes, the girl would be very happy if you 'made up for it' using your hands and mouth. If she doesn't, she's an idiot. And just for you to file away, two-thirds of women do NOT, repeat, do NOT reach orgasm through penetrative sex alone. Some clitoral stimulation is needed and quite nice if done right for orgasm to be achieved.
And one more thing, at your age, if you *ahem* recover quickly, you certainly could try try again. No harm in that, and certainly a lot of fun trying!
Now, lecture bit. Condoms, safe sex.... STDs out there.... nasty viruses.... pregnancy.... yadda yadda yadda. But all true.
Take care!
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reader, ninja-style +, writes (8 October 2008):
ninja-style is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe question title is completly wrong :S
Can anyone help with my actual question please =D
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reader, Jack_McVeigh  +, writes (8 October 2008):
 ok man hi, i am gay and yeh i admit my boyfriend did have the same problem. i mean he would cum after about 2 minutes or so. i think alot of it was down to him being so excited. i mean i know that sounds weird, but i mean i think you have got to relax more. if you relax then you are basically slowing everything down, including cumming. try is. just relax, or try something like try to name a full england football squad whilst you are having sex with her. i mean that sounds totally random and weird, but i promise you it does work! try it. all the best... xx Jack P McVeigh
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