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*wistie
writes:My exboyfriend of 1 yr and I just broke up. He was into some really strange fetishes and over time I agreed to participate in them...things like spanking him, using a strap on with him, peeing in his mouth while he performed oral sex on me, and then came spitting in his face or slapping his face during sex....the list just goes on. I know these things are not normal but I grew to really get turned on by them. Now normal sex isn't enough are there others out there who enjoy these things?
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reader, Mitchell1978  +, writes (21 July 2011):
What's normal anyway? There are many men who enjoy these things.
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reader, twistie +, writes (9 October 2008):
twistie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise, I love this site. I guess people are more into these type of things then I thought...maybe I was the sheltered one.
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 You know this is nice to hear I know It sounds like a stupid comment but people do not experiment enough. I would say that spanking and slapping of the face is a common fetish and many men and woman like it. Some men like using dildos and strap ons but It is not as common. There are more people in to (golden showers)or peeing on or into someones mouth than you would think. But people are not always willing to admit to their thoughts about fetish's.
I am sure you will find someone in to the same things as you. S AND M IS VERY VERY POPULAR EVERYWHERE
HOPE THIS HELPS
GOOD LUCK
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (8 October 2008):
 Ive heard worse!
I guess the only trouble with fetishes and acting them out, they get boring after a while and people need more. And regular sex can seem mundane in comparison. But what you suppose to do, not do those things you like because of that?
When I started dating a guy yrs ago, I had him pulling my hair, ok not as risque as what you are into, but this guy was horrified! Cuz i'm talking yanking it! lol He asked his uncle what he should do, his uncle said, what should you do? well pull her hair dippit!!!!
Needless to say, as you know yourself, when you know someone digs something, it turns you on! And it did him. You will meet loads of guys that will be surprised at first when you drop those things into convo, but I bet any money they will get into it, then you will have them hooked on them too! lol
Most blokes will try anything in all honesty, and someone more experienced and adventurous like you will be an extra buz for them. Golden showers, slapping, giving them a treat with a vibrator (and for that i'm talking nowhere near gay, but full on red blooded men) etc are common fetishes with many blokes. People just dont boadcast it, trust me.
C xxxxx
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