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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Im always in the mood to have sex with my boyfriend, he is never in the mood. What can I do?It only happens 1 time a week. I am sexually frustrated. I need him to want me more! When I talk to him about it he gets angry, so now I just satisfy myself, but it is not the same. He just don't worry when I tell him that im in the mood. There's always an excuse. I want to feel that he also wants me like I want him. I don't want to feel important once a week, just when it suits him, I mean it is supposed to come from both sides. Please help.
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reader, Judous  +, writes (8 October 2008):
The true way to a man's heart is through his Ego. Instead of coming at him that you want sex try a completely different approach. This always works on me, no matter how stressed, angry, or generally detached I am.
The key to this is to get in the mind frame that you are doing all this for him, not wanting anything in return. Once you have that you can think of a million ways to get him in the mood. But I will list everything that works 100% of the time on me.
1. call him about an hour before he gets off work and tell him you have a nice surprise just for him when he gets home. I would suggest cooking his favorite meal and while your both eating.. give him a massage (yes men like it to) and while your doing that give him sincere compliments that aren't sexual in nature.. but sure to fire started. For example.. "That shirt really shows off your muscles" or "That beard is manly on you"
2. When you see that he is warming up to you.. go down on him, and do it with passion but not for to long... once he is truly turned on.. stop and tell him you will be right back and disappear into another room (looking back lustfully)
3. Put on some new lingerie. The power of lingerie cannot be underestimated. Make sure not to take more than a few minutes putting it on because all your work could be lost. If you want to look as hot as you can, but your makeup on first. That way all you need to do is slip into the lingerie, and put on some lipstick. 2 min tops.
4. Then just simply let him know that your all his, whatever he wants to do to you...
I guarantee this to absolutely work. The trick to doing all this is that your not putting any pressure on him, your giving yourself to his desire, and your stroking his ego.. Any man would respond highly to this.
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