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writes:a little confused. need some help. me and my husband have been together for three years. he has always said he would never try anal sex and has never even thought about wanting to, but all of the sudden he wanted to do it. He didnt come out and ask he just kept tring to one night. i was wondering if anyone could tell me why he would want to try it now after saying he would never want to. and if i let him is he going to want to have anal sex all the time? any help would be apprecated
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): im a guy 22. ive had anal sex with 2 different girls as much out of there choice as mine. there are many reasons for why he would have said he did not want to have anal sex. true or untrue. all i would say is its about trust.-as long as its about the both of you enjoying it.-he's not really pushy. -you are comfortable with it. if he starts to want it all the time you have to let him know that that specific hole is not for everyday usage. and if he doesnt respect that and he persists to the point of disrespect then he has some issues.
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reader, chandra Mcmillan  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 Hun Men and women sometimes just get the urge to try somthing new, weather it is anal sex, role play or anything else experimental. I would say from experience anal sex can be pleasurable if your in the correct position however it is a painfull experience first time just like loosing your verginity, If YOU want to try it use loads of lubrication and relax. If YOU DONT then tell him straight you do not like the idea of it and dont want it.
It is somthing you need to want not just to keep him happy.
I hope this helps
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): maybe he was saying that becuz he thought that you wouldnt want to try it.or maybe he really didnt want to before,but something has triggered his curiosity.as we get older most of us will decide to try new things sexually.and thats really not a bad thing.if your ok with it,and hes ok with it then look at it as a new,exciting chapter in your sex life.in can be great fun as long as your relaxed and he knows to take his time.i doubt that it would become something he wants to do EVERY time,just something to change things up a bit.talk to him about it if your worried,it should be something you both want or it wont go over well.if you do try it,use plenty of lubrication and relax.you might really enjoy it,give it a shot:)
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