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He wants to live with us and I don't want him to think it's a free ride

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

30 October 2014 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I guess I need some advice from strangers purely because everyone who knows me or my boyfriend seem to be giving their opinion based on how things were between us before. We have a four year old son, and he wasn't plan...

My Boyfriend and his ex-sister in law! I am incandesant with anger over this. What could or should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

29 October 2014 (F) - My boyfriend slept with his ex sister in-law, so that now has a baby by his brother. I can't get over the past and I don't think I ever will. I hate that "BITCH" and she's part of their family which I can't stand!!!What should I do about this s...

Should I go along to the Doctor with my fiance when she visits the Doctor to talk about contraception?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

28 October 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. I am engaged to get married next year in june. It is about my fiance going to be using birth control. She plans to go see the doctor and get all that figured out. But when would be a good time to go to the doctor and should i go alon...

Can you help calculate the maths to perhaps arrive at which guy is the likely father?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

27 October 2014 (F) - This is kind of embarrassing but i just want an opinion im fairly sure i know the answer would like some opinions though. I am 6 mths pregnant. at the time of falling pregnant i slept with 2 guys. im fairly sure i know who the dad is but was w...

He's abusive. Why do I take him back, even though I know he is not good for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

26 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid Where do I start? I was with my ex was 4 years. Earlier it used be fun, for past few months the verbal emotional abuse is more than I can take. He withdraws affection and love. Makes me beg with him to even talk to me, at last talks to...

I think my friend is trying to get pregnant by another friend of mine without him knowing -- do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

23 October 2014 (F) - Hi people, Im in a very very awkward situation and any help would be greatly greatly appreciated!! (everyone is 22 Y/O) A little background: My friend who I will call Jane and I hav been friends for a little over 6 years. She and her Boyfrie...

My wife's libido is low after having our baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

20 October 2014 (M) - I am sorry if this is an old issue - I have looked over previous thread but everyone is unique eh? Two years ago I married my wife who is considered by all who meet her, male and female, to be a particularly attractive and 'sexy' woman. Las...

Boyfriend's ex is contacting him and he's stopped telling me and is deleting texts. Why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 October 2014 (F) - Hello, Ive asked a question about this situation before but there has since been developments therefore i need further advice. My boyfriend of 2 years met up with a friend back in august. This friend wasnt just a friend it was some who he live...

What can I do considering it seems that I am in another abusive relationship and pregnant too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

18 October 2014 (F) - I am so depressed and need some help/advice... I am 22 on Thursday. I have two kids (3 and 5) and I am 23 weeks with my third. I have messed up my life up so much... I was with a "man" for 5 years and he physically and emotionally abuse...

I'm pregnant and not happy with the demands my boyfriend is making of me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

17 October 2014 (F) - I am pregnant and due feb. I havent been with the dad for long.. the baby was defo a surprise. Heres my problems - I have moved in with my new partner just a mth ago.. he wont let me bring my cat which ive had for 9 yrs he wont let me ...

I'm pregnant and the father of the child wants me to terminate. I'm confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

16 October 2014 (F) - I need sum help.. I don't need people judging me or giving me grief. I'm 25 and 9 weeks pregnant. I have been in an on/off relationship for some time. We were together for a few years and he cheated.. so I moved out and went no contact. 6 month...

Too embarassed to tell my BF. I really want a baby, but he say's financially we're not ready. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

15 October 2014 (F) - I just too feel too embarrassed to tell my partner how I feel. I really want a baby, and he has told me we are not ready financially even though he is ready emotionally. Twice now I have thought I was pregnant because of my stupid irregular periods. ...

How do I tell my father that I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advice on how to tell my father that I am pregnant. My parents divorced when I was 9 and I have lived with my dad since then. I see my mom a couple of times a year but we are not close at all. My dad has been amazing ...

I just lost my baby and her father is cheating on me, how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3694 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - I just lost my daughter at 7 months pregnant. I had an emergency c section. I'm staying with family because the father cannot support or take care of me. I can locate his phone and he's been with another woman. He's introduced her to his coworkers. ...

I'm in a new relationship. But how do I stop being so untrusting anxious that he'll leave me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

14 October 2014 (F) - I had been in this new relationship for about two months. We first were just working on a construction job together but it gradually turned into us living together in the house we are working on and him working for me. I have 4 children that don...

Do I Tell my boyfriend he might not be the dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - Ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months now. I love him so much, he treats me like im the only girl in the world and doesnt care that i have a baby from a past relationship, he loves my little boy just as much as me. But 8 months b...

Family secrets: The only two who were not told about the cheating? Myself and my son. How do I deal with their toxic actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3696 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) - My husband had an affair with his sister in law. His older brother was 20 years older than her, they married because she was pregnant. He had another younger girl pregnant, but chose to marry ''C''. He never had contact with that child from the...

How do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3697 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and now I've found out I'm pregnant. I'm only 20 and this was not planned at all. We've talked about marriage in the future and having children eventually but we didn't want it t...

Should we share with family the trials and struggle we are going through in an effort to have a baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3697 days ago

12 October 2014 (F) - So my husband and I hit the one year mark for trying for a baby this week, and it has been pretty hard on us , me especially. I know its not a major panic at this point and there are many couples who have had to try much longer,so I don't mean to ...

I don't want him to give up his dream but I just found out I'm pregnant! How do I break the news?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3698 days ago

11 October 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Ok I'm 30 years old and my OH is 32. We both are currently living separately at our parents houses while we save up to buy a house ourselves. Unfortunately.. New mortgage regulationss have just come in and now we have to up twice wh...

He's enlisting in the Air Force and wants to get married and try for a baby before he leaves!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3699 days ago

9 October 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I know it's been awhile since I last wrote and a lot has happened in that time I'm with someone new for starters and we've been together for a year with no breaking up or taking a break. I know I've said it before but with...

I'm 21 and pregnant, yet my Bf is denying that the baby is his. What can I say to my parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3702 days ago

6 October 2014 (F) - I'm 21 and pregnant and my boyfriend is denying that the child is his child. Now I'm stressed. I don't know what to tell my parents please help....

Married 7 years and cannot conceive. Have some to dread lovemaking. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3704 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) - hi agony aunt, I've been married for 7 years and yet to conceive. I use to have a very high sexual libido but not any more. I now dread my husband's touch and talk of love making ,its affecting my marriage. what do i do?...