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writes:I just too feel too embarrassed to tell my partner how I feel. I really want a baby, and he has told me we are not ready financially even though he is ready emotionally. Twice now I have thought I was pregnant because of my stupid irregular periods. I have just found out I'm not pregnant again, and I either cry my eyes out or feel absolutely distraught and angry with myself and other women that its so easy for them to fall accidentally pregnant. I don't think I'm infertile because he always stops me and myself before he ejaculates. I feel so angry and upset, and angry with him. I know its not right, but I can't help it. Feeling like there's not much point for anything. Please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2014): You can start by getting on contraception and by being mature about all this. Communication is needed, you cant just get pregnant blindy without planning for the future and without a willing partner.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 October 2014):
 I think the two of you are playing with fire. Using the pull out method as birth control is not very smart at all. Specially IF your BF feel you two aren't financially ready for a baby.
If your periods are so irregular have you considered being on Birth Control for a while to regulate it?
He is trying NOT to knock you up and YOU are trying to GET pregnant, that is a recipe for disaster. And you really need to reconsider this. It's NOT fair of you trying to get pregnant if he doesn't feel you two can actually handle it yet.
And it's not fair of him to NOT use condoms if he doesn't want kids yet.
You two are playing Russian Roulette with your futures.
Why not sit down and PLAN for the future so you two CAN become ready and able to raise a child together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2014): You can thank him for being responsible for the three of you.
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