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writes: I'm 21 and pregnant and my boyfriend is denying that the child is his child. Now I'm stressed. I don't know what to tell my parents please help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2014): Your boyfriend really needs to grow up and not be immature especially during all this crisis. And I think its best you tell your parents since they're like the only ones who can support you during this time,and can advise your boyfriend too.. and you need to stay strong and look after your baby.
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reader, Lesh4Amo +, writes (7 October 2014):
Lesh4Amo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys that's really helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2014): Some boyfriend you have....
Just be honest with your parents. Tell them as soon as possible so you can decide if you would like to terminate the pregnancy. If you do get an abortion, obviously, you won't be able to prove to your boyfriend (your now ex-boyfriend I hope) that he was the father...If you carry to term, get a DNA test, then he's responsible for raising your/his child unless you both agree that he will play no part in the child's life and you both go separate ways.
But that's not the major issue here.
Come clean to your parents. Make a rational decision about where you see your life going and what you want to do with this pregnancy.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (6 October 2014):
Honeypie is right on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 October 2014):
He can deny it, but if HE is the father a DNA test will prove it.
And whether he denies it or not you will HAVE to tell your parents and figure out your next move.
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