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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

How to react when the honeymoon period is over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

26 September 2016 (F) - I feel like in every relationship once the honeymoon period is over, you reach that point where you're like, is there enough good stuff here that you want to move forward even though you're not high on love anymore, and give love a chance to grow ...

She confessed to cheating just 2 weeks into our LDR, I’d love to resolve this but don’t know what she’s thinking! Any advice appreciated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

25 September 2016 (M) - Hello, today im requesting a bit of relationship advice Me and my girl met a while ago and remained freinds but this year we got a lot closer and started going out for a month, just before the month was up i had to leave and go overseas for wor...

I have a great relationship and love him but want to be single

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2966 days ago

24 September 2016 (F) - Hey! First of all thanks in advance for any questions! I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and 7 months. No breaks or anything in between. We generally have the most amazing relationship. We have everything in common, I find him...

I'm afraid if I get too close to this lovely man that I might cheat on my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

22 September 2016 (F) - I met a guy yesterday and he bought me lunch. I like him I find him attractive and I think he feels the same about me. We agreed yesterday that we will meet again today at some volunteering project but when he arrived I only greeted him and stayed ...

I can't get over him (he seems interested too). But he's in a long distance relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - (Sorry for the very very lengthy explanation, there is a quick summary at the end if you want to skip the novella) A while back a guy started in my office and I was immediately interested. We started as friends but I knew he'd never like me ...

Since the breakup of what I thought was a perfect LD relationship I can't stop thinking about him. How do I cope with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I feel like I need a reality check and I don't have many people in my life to ask for advice or open up to. I was broken up with 2 months ago by the person I loved. The relationship ended solely because of distance and the fact that his jo...

LDR has it cooled, he finds it boring or...???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - I would really appreciate some advice and your opinion. I've been in a LDR for a little over a month. We were together for a week before he had to leave and go back home (another continent!). We've been texting and talked over the phone a bit (I'...

My LDR is stressing me out. I do want to keep the relationship. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) - My relationship is stressing me out. To give a bit of background. I was with my ex for 7 years and he cheated. Left me for her. I was single for 9-10 months when I got with my current boyfriend. We've been together 8 months now. Everything w...

How does this plan look to you?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

18 September 2016 (F) - So I have posted about a guy I met online. I managed to find cheap plane tickets to visit him, so I am going there in a little bit. We have been messaging for over a month and skyping/texting for over 2 weeks. I really like him and I just want to ...

I'm alarmed at my LDR boyfriend's interest in a receptionist

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

17 September 2016 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship. We only see each other about once a month. We've been together over 3 years. My boyfriend enjoys buying old cars from auctions, fixing them up, then reselling them. He has always brought his cars to a friend's...

Meeting with the only guy in my life I never got bored of

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

17 September 2016 (F) - Hello agony aunts! I am 27 living in Europe. I'm asking for advice with regard to my longest crush ever. When I was 20 years old, I went into yahoo chatrooms and met D. We started chatting and just LOVED talking to him. Initially he hadnt taken m...

Break up and make up again and again. Should I just end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2979 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - We met on Face book back in 2011 and met in person a moth later.We had strong connection but the distance eventually took it's toll and he broke it off since neither of us were in a position to move. After time part we would recon...

What are some tips to keeping a LDR positive and satisfying, considering that he will be moving to a remote area without reliable wi-fi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

15 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going to be long distance for the next couple of months. We will both be in farely remote areas without regular wifi. A lot of tips I've read are based around the fact that you can message or call that person at all hours. H...

Confused about our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - I needed advice on a situation I am in currently. I've known one of my friends for many years. Just under 2 years ago he told me he likes me more than a mate. The day he told me I told him I needed time and we'll see where it ends up as I wasn't ...

Our LDR started out with good communication and I just want that back. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - Help! I've been in an on again off again long distance relationship with a younger man for about a year. He came on very strong, consistent, and attentive, and things were great. He would call, text, we had weekly face time dates, and he would ...

Should I be upset my toyboy wont spend my birthday with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

10 September 2016 (?) - Ok here goes ive been having a long distance relationship with a guy since March because of distance we see each other at weekends. I'm 40 hes 29. Which i worry about but hes okay about it. Its my birthday in 2 months but when i brought it up it...

LDR boyfriend has been chatting inappropriately with other women and even worse, with his ex... And has painted me like a monster in front of her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and long distance for almost 1 year. Up until a few days ago, I thought our relationship was amazing. I considered this relationship the healthiest, most honest, and loving one I've ever been in. H...

I haven’t spoken to my boyfriend in 3 days! I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. I am in a different state than him now in grad school. I went to see him last weekend and he complained about how broke he was the whole time (something that has been a peeve of mine the last 3 ...

Boyfriend doing masters degree but I'm leaving for a job 8 hours away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - Hi there! I've got a wonderful job in London which I'm very excited about, but my boyfriend of 3 years has decided to do a masters degree for another year at the university we were both at (a good 8 hour train journey from London). I ob...

My ex has contacted me. What might his motives be? How should I take this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - so my ex and i are both in the military but are deployed to different places. we broke up a little while before deployment and went a month and some change with no contact. i broke up with him by the way. he of course was the one to reach back ou...

He doesn't want to rush. I really like him and want this to go somewhere. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - I've been talking to this guy since December 2015. We have been on two date and speak pretty much every day. He works away offshore so it's hard to meet up with his as he is often away. Part of me wants to ask him what are we? As it has been s...

Has this instant connection got a future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

3 September 2016 (M) - Several years ago I started dog-sitting for a couple, grew close to their dogs, and eventually them. I have since been through the death of one of the dogs, and the adoption of another. More importantly, I have become rather close to the husba...

I just found out that the LDR guy I'd been dating is married and has a kid. I've blocked him but should I give him a chance to explain?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I found out yesterday that the guy I’m with is married and has a child. I blocked him in wechat and whatsapp. It was such a disastrous feeling with I saw his Facebook of his wife and the child’s photos and not forgetting his we...