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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Our marriage seems to work OK on the phone but not in person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - I need an advise about my marriage sittuation. Since 3 years ago my mother got very sick and I had to visit her every year for a long period of time.My husband is from a wealthy family and he kind of told me to stop everything and stay with my mom.I ...

I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...

Can phone sex keep our relationship strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with someone in a different country. Gasp! Yes, I said a long distance relationship. Our relationship is still new (5 months about) but I feel it is strengthening. We are continuously making plans to visit e...

What started as FWB turned into LDR but he's blowing hot and cold

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - So I am not sure what to do in this situation. Met a guy this summer in July. Since I was moving 8 hours away in August, I wanted to try to keep this a friends with benefits arrangement, but per usual, feelings took hold. We hung about 3-4 times a ...

LDR--am I just being a lonely jealous girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been best friends for several years. We met online back in 2011 and were just good friends, later that year we finally met and knew we were both interested in each other. He lives in Iowa and i'm in minnesota. We were off and ...

I want to break up but how? Or am I overreacting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. Typical love story, we met while travelling to our home town at a friend's place, we met we hit it off instantly, we promised to keep in touch, we emailed, we sent text messages, spent ...

Advice With Long Distance Relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (M) - To make a long story short, I met this girl, She's just about one of the hottest girls I've met, and we started talking about 4 weeks ago when she added me and we have been talking on the phone a lot lately. Yesterday was the day we got in a ...

Why is my fiancée's mother bribing me with gas cards?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 November 2013 (M) - Why is my fiancee's mother bribing me with gas cards, when I've put on 6300 miles in the last two months? My fiancee can't drive because of her seizure disorder (though it has been getting more under control recently). We currently live 45 minutes ...

How to get my BF back and move on in the old direction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I was in 4,5 year long distance relationship. We were seeing each other every 2nd weekend, which is quite often for 2 countries that are far away. It was love at first sight, we had the same taste, traveled a lot together, planning to marry and have ...

My LDR girlfriend had drinks with male friends at her place late at night. Is that acceptable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

21 November 2013 (M) - My ldgf was having some drinks with her female roomate and a couple of guys until 3 am at her place. is it acceptable? Here's the story: when we skyped she said she was going to bed and we were about to end our converstation when her phone rang and ...

Should I uproot my child to be with this man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - My dilemma is simple. I am a young single mother who has always lived in California. A year ago I met a man from Texas who was here on business but decided to let him have my number and things progressed. Because of business he was here quite a ...

Will we be able to maintain our relationship if I move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - Hi Recently I got in touch with a man that I met at university years ago. We’ve not been in touch for 8 years. At university, we dated for a short term. I have always had feelings for him. Anyway we are now together. When I got in touch with hi...

Missing my LDR. Should I book a ticket to see him at Christmas? Or make him wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - What should I do? I miss him so much:(? So I'm in LDR with my boyfriend. He's the most sweetest and romantic guy I've ever been with. and his body is just amazing!! I trust him, and out married friends set us up so I trust them and him. We'v...

How do I get my boyfriend to listen to me when I need to talk to him seriously?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - I am so unhappy with my long distance boyfriend of 3 years but every time I try to initiate a talk he starts shouting or tells me I'm a nag or puts the phone down on me. I can't even tell him I want to break up with him because if I manage to say ...

I have a second chance with my ex but its on harsh terms- should I go for it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

15 November 2013 (M) - Hey all Its day 4 post breakup here, i havent started 'no contact' we are still talking every night all night (i know this is not the way to go) Our split was down to distance..5 years in an LDR with neither of us willing to give up our jobs ...

I feel as though I am putting in way more time, love and energy into our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - Dear Agony aunts, This is very complicated but here goes. For a little over a year I have been in a long distance relationship. I go to college in one state, and he lives and works in another. When I met him, he was in the process of separ...

She lies to me a lot. It's confusing me. Can I trust her? Is there a future for us together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - I am stuck and confused. Should I leave my long distance girlfriend of 7 months? So here my story goes.. I like and love this girl a lot, as we were classmates earlier for a year then she took admission somewhere and me somewhere else. We ...

Suspicious of how her behaviour has changed since she made a new male friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4025 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - Long story short. my LD girlfriend has always been a very confident girl about herself, her looks etc. She is very smart and very sexy too. around 8 months ago, due to cultural differences we were close to break up. Im warm and charming. she was ...

My deployed boyfriend cheated! I need advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend been going out for 2 years we were plaining on getting married and everything we'll before he deployed I found out he cheated when he went home on leave 4weeks before deployment I flipped on him and wanted to break up but he ...

Boyfriend joining coast guard?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have known each other for 6 years(he was my male best friend) and been together for 2 years now and recently he has decided to join the coast guard and I am now officially worried. I know this would be a great opportunity for ...

I ended it so it should be easy, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M) - Hi all I have been with my ex for a very long time (5 years 1 month 2 days) We split 2 days ago. Its been LDR the whole time, spending weekends and holidays together. We probably average 2-3 days/week together We have both been in our j...

I'm too scared to break up with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

11 November 2013 (F) - I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now in a relatively stable relationship. Because of my job I've had to move away for a while and my boyfriend is still back at home and now I rarely get to see him. ...

Boyfriend is out of town... messages me...then does not read my reply or answer back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 November 2013 (?) - Hi all. I am a bit upset. Not sure if I should be or not. Hope you can give me your opinions. My boyfriend is in the U.S helping his dad get back on his feet following a surgery. He messaged me on Facebook the day after he arrived and he t...

Relationship issues! Do I sound clingy by caring too much for others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) - My all relationship get off to similar start and end in a same pattern. In short words, girls like me being sweet and making them laugh. As time goes on, they find me little cheesy and care too much for them which makes them bored of me. Like w...

I found a HIV-test. Did she cheat on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

10 November 2013 (M) - I have a steady girlfriend from past 2 years. Before I came in her life she had around 5-6 men in her life. But I am sure that from past 2 years it's been just me. I moved to another town close by - 2 hour drive from my current place for a work ...

Girl in need of post break up advice!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex about 6 months ago. We were together for 4 years and for the entire time we were long distance. He was in Boston and I'm in California. (There's more information about us on the previous questions I've posted) long story sh...

Should I just forget about him and try move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 November 2013 (F) - I met a guy on a night out with some friends, he was really nice and we hung out most of the night and he asked for my number. He text me every day without fail, and not just one or two texts it would texting from morning till night, we went on two ...

Boys - Should I call him first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

5 November 2013 (F) - I was abroad for a year when I met a man who I fell for. He left before me - and we both live in the same city but didn't want to do long distance. I recently came back and wrote to him saying it would be nice to catch up. I got an email straight ...

Who should I go for? My fiance William or my soul mate Andy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

4 November 2013 (F) - I am at a relationship crossroads. I met my college sweetheart "Andy" when I was 18. We were friends for a year, and then dated for 3 and had planned to marry someday. We had typical young love problems and broke up when we graduated. He went to ...

My ldr has a more intimate relationship with his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

3 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently became long distance as I had to move to another city. He would call me daily but only to tell me his itinerary of the day. There are no emotions, nothing romantic, its very repetitive and predictable. We are good when we ...

My gf has a friend, and apparently they like each other. How should I react?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (M) - my gf and I are in a long distance relationship for a year and a half now. We love each other and so far we have been very happy together. she met a guy in university who has been talking to her and messaging her on fb. he has been asking her to h...