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writes:I met a guy on a night out with some friends, he was really nice and we hung out most of the night and he asked for my number. He text me every day without fail, and not just one or two texts it would texting from morning till night, we went on two dates but we are both planning on travelling in the summer of next year so agreed from day one we wouldn't jump into anything cause it would be difficult when we both left, so basically after the second date the texting was the exact same for about 3 days then all of a sudden he never text, my friends told me I shouldn't text him so I waited, it's now been a month since we last spoke, I would just let it go but for the first time in ages I genuinely like this guy... Is it bad to text him since it's been a month? Did he not text me cause he doesn't want to see me anymore? Should I just forget about him and try move on? Any advice would be great!
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reader, It'sgoodtotalk +, writes (9 November 2013):
Sorry but sounds like he is just not that in to you. Other things may be going on for him and where as he may feature largely in your life, for him it sounds very different. To set you mind at ease you could just try a casual text, see if he answers but I'd be inclined to move on as there are others who are looking for the same as you. Stop punishing yourself with angst over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2013): Yes you really should move on and thank your lucky stars it didn't go any further.
When a guy stops texting you he is sending you a clear message none the less. It is " I am not interested." When a guy is interested he would never stop contact for a month.
But you may ask, he kept texting me before all the time. Yes people do that, text away and when something else comes along quickly lose interest. I have done it myself, text a guy who is ok but who seems interested and then move on when someone more interesting comes along. And I have certainly had it done to me too!
Move on to that great guy who truly likes you and would never dream of notbeing in touch.
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