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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

My boyfriend is going away for 4 months. Should we break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm a 19 year old girl at university, just finishing my second year out of three, and have been with my lovely boyfriend for over a year. He lives in my home town so we're kind of long distance but obviously I spend all my breaks from ...

She likes me!... But she lives far away. I don't want to hurt her. How can I spare her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - There's a girl who likes me. Problem is, she lives over 3 hours away. We met over facebook. Until she revealed how she felt, I thought it was just friendly banter. Although, there were a couple of occasions where we were clearly flirting. During...

We've been together every day since we got into contact again, how will we cope with a long distance relation now? Any similar experiences you can share?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, iv known him since we were 3 years old, but lost touch when i moved away when we were 9, but 2 years ago we got into contact again, and we both were planning to go into the army but i ...

My boyfriend is moving to another school, how will I cope, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Okay, listen I really love my boyfriend and his best friend was moving to a different school so my boyfriend's mom was gonna make him move but it turned out that my boyfriend's best friend's mom changed her mind but my boyfriend is still moving and ...

I'm suffering the green eyed monster, and I feel extremely threatened by her. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Basically, I'm in a long distance relationship (100 miles) of 1 month, and I'm a little iffy about one of my boyfriend's female friends, who is actually married (but unhappily). They have a little history- they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend b...

I want commitment. Are our differences too great?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My bf is leaving for another country, which has gotten me all stressed up and I was really afraid to lose him. So I try to pressure him to give me a commitment and I think that got him very frustrated. When he did not even plan to spend his last day ...

I do love him and want to please him, but I find what I'm doing really uncomfortable. How can I make it easier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been "official" for 4. (we're long distance, but I will be home this summer). This is both of our first relationships, so we've been taking things really slowly. I've given a few hand...

How can I ask how he feels about me without putting him on the spot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now, but we just adopted the title of boyfriend and girlfriend 6 months ago. It's kind of a long distance thing because he's in NY and I'm in NJ, but I am so totally in love with this man. The...

I was agitated at the fact that he told me to fructify my opportunity abroad without him! I wouldn't have ever considered leaving him anyway! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I am in a HUGE dilema. I'll try to keep this as short as possible... I have been with my boyfriend 3 years. We initally had a rocky relationship, but now everything is perfect, and i've never stopped loving him. Everything is great. I rece...

He wants me to move AGAIN, for him. Should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in together and lived together for almost a year. Things got rocky and we broke up. Now we are living in opposite sides of the state and we have been talking a lot. Our communication has really improved and we have ...

Is he cheating? Do I confront him? Please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Ok, I will start from beginning. I have been with my partner coming up to one year. He has never given me reason not to trust him. About 6 months ago, he went away and gave me his email password so I could check it for him. I have never snooped. N...

I don't know if I completely trust my boyfriend, as he lives far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm dating this guy that lives very far and i'm not sure if i completely trust him. What should i do???...

I feel guilty that during the while he left me alone I had online sex chats, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi guys.wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago....

How do I get over him beause he lives to far away ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hello im 15 and well my parents have students from france and spain and italy and i just i got to no one from fraance really well and fell in love with him and it was my first time and it felt really strange but when he left i was really u...

I moved two hours away from him and it scares me when I don't hear from him for days!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating since just after christmas and I'm completely crazy about him. My family moved recently though and we're not that far apart but it's still two hours and he's my only social life. I'm really busy with my own ...

I want to immigrate without expense of a single penny, is there a legal way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Hi, I am Indian. I want to immigrate in any of developed Countries but I don't have handful of money. Is there any way out to be married and settled in any other Country without expense of a single penny? I am ready to accept any terms and condit...

We live in different countries, am I being paranoid about his not returning my calls in the past week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - my boyfriend hasnt called in a week and he used to call daily.does that mean he's not interested anymore.I have dropped messages,called him but he wasnt picking the calls,or am i being paranoid,he could be sick or out of the country? Didi i mention ...

Should I meet him in person? I'm afraid of losing a friend and having my heart broken...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - hi i have this problem i have been spking to this guy for just over 2 years. we have exchanged photos and he has a webcam so we know who we are talking to. he has anxiety and depression issues and confides in me alot about his life. we talk every ni...

He said to text him as he was interested in me but he's never replied. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - me and my family have our own static caravan in wales.. we go p really frequently.. every weekend when we can.. and during school holidays we are like always there. as we are there quite a lot me and my younger sister have become pretty good friends ...

He may go studying abroad and Mom said that long distance doesn't work. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - My bf may go studying aborad for one or two months... We've never been apart and we've had issues... if he does leave, how will I feel secure that he'll be faithful? My mom said long distance relationships never work. We do great however, it's...

He broke up with me because he says we are incompatible! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I met 4 years ago, it was immediate attraction but we lived in different countries. I moved in close to him, and so we dated a year and 2 months. There is no doubt about how much he loves me,we even talked about getting married ...

I am in an open, long-distance relationship which I've screwed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy and we've been long distance since September. We've decided to remain in an open relationship until I go back to his city at the end of May. I broke up with him about 6 weeks ago because it was too hard to handle but that ...

Next time I see her do I greet her with a kiss? It's been two weeks since our first kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - So, this might be a stupid question, and I feel like it may resolve itself naturally, but I thought I'd put it out there anyway since it's been bugging me. I've been talking with this one girl for about a month and we are dating. She goes to ...

Why did my online boyfriend delete my photos on his myspace profile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i have an american boyfriend, and i am from philippines. im 24 and he's 20. our relationship is still going on but always argue with something. im just really curious, after 5 months he deleted my photos on his myspace profile. but still says there ...

His deceased brother's sister is interested in him and would like to stay over with him...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and 4 months. he is 69 years old but is very young at heart. his brother was killed 39 years ago and since then his brother's wife has remarried and does not have a good marriage. the day that his ...

Things have gone downhill since we last met! What is happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5967 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - ok i met this guy about three months ago we chat all the time whether it online or on the phone and we txt now and again.. we have lots in common even play the same online games..he came up for a visit a few months ago and things were good we ...

Is this long distance relationship worth all the effort? I'm new to this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i've just started redating my ex boyfriend again. Things are going okay and I'm happy enough- except for the fact he lives 130 miles away. We've been dating for two months and already the distance is tiring me out. we see each other every ...

Moving to another country for love? He's not exactly against getting married eventually.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - moving for love? i'm with my bf for almost a year now. He's been wonderful, caring and loving. I'm 26, he's 31. he's moving to another country and has 'invited' me to move with him. Actually he said it's up to me but when I said I am consider...

He said he didn't want to get serious with another female but should I trust what I hear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I was in an official relationship with a guy for a little over 3 months. Before that we'd met through some friends and got off to talking constantly right off the bat. The entire first month and a half of our relationship we'd talk every night for ...

Do you think his approach to me has changed since the last email?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - This guy with whom I've been in touch with for more than a year now, I always been the one emailing him and he always replying right away. We've become friends, he's a GI so mainly busy. Recenty got deployed and before he left, I wrote him wishing ...

He told me to move on, but I'm finding it hard and I'm sure he still cares.

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20 April 2008 (F) - last september i got chatting to a guy online that i met through a dating site we eventually met and have done six times as he works abroad and isnt in the country much. Anyway wen we first met we met three times which two of the times we stayed in ...

My overseas player who never asked me for sex is playing games with me! What is his deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - i dnt knw where to start but i heard something about me thats soo not true..here..goes...i use to date a guy back in high school, he was a guy that every girl wanted and i was a girl that every guy wanted anyways we dated and while in high school. ...

In a long distance relation, how to cope with the distance at our young age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - i have a boyfrined and (yes i know i am young for my age to have a bf) but the distance is killing im in (i am going to use other states not my or my bf's actual state) new york and he is all the way in florida the distance is killing us what should ...

I'm moving to another State and I don't want to lose contact, how do I go about staying in touch with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - Okay, let's keep this simple. There's this guy at school who I have a HUGE crush on. Well, here's the story: I started liking him in the beginning of the last school year (Or, that's when I started acknowledging it). He sat in front of me on t...

Going to write her a letter. If this was you, what would you write?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

17 April 2008 (M) - I want to write a letter to my girlfriend and I need some good ideas. My girlfriend lives in Southern California and I live in Northern California (about 400 miles away). She is currently 5 and 1/2 months pregnant with my son. She is with her family ...

My online guy is flying to come see me! I'm so nervous, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

17 April 2008 (F) - i met someone online and we have gotten very close and we have everything in common....and he is planning to fly over to where i live and come meet me for the very first time...and i am nervous...what should i do please help me!...

Should I move to California to be with my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - okayy. my boyfriend and i have been together fer almost 3 months. ive known him for like 8 months altogether because he dated my best friend. we have a great relationship, im about to turn 14 and he just turned 15. the only things wrong with our ...

Why are men like this or is this guy only like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 April 2008 (F) - He´s been away for a month and a half. And although he said he was gonna be in touch, It really took me by surprise that he send me a note today saying "How are things down there?" I mean after all this time he just said that. I hoped for him to t...

Falling for a man already in a long distance relationship...advice?

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16 April 2008 (M) - The man that I currently am crushing on is already in a relationship with another man. The other relationship is a long-distance, network-based relationship, which apparently had been in planning for some time. I am located in the same small city ...

I don't believe it when she says she needs space and she's dating someone else! Can someone help me figure this out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - Me and my ex have been going out for a year. She started saying she needs space and I gave it to her and she stop calling me just texting me. But now she's got mad because people are saying rumors about her using me. I spent so much money and ...

I really need to know where I'm at with this guy, any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - Okay first I will say I know it was wrong to have an affair, I was married (knowing I was headed for Divorce) he was married as he said 'not happily'. He persued me. It lasted for about 4 months - was not intimate until after a month, he was ...

He broke up with me, I'm trying to move on after a broken heart, now he's trying to get close again. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years, before packing my bag to come to the US to be with him 6 months ago. The first 6 months were very stressful and challenging, as I learnt to adjust to the new environment, make friends, weat...

Isn't his love for me supposed to keep him away from other girls?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - i broke up with my b/f and now he wants me back.i want him back too But he kissed another girl and if they wern't on the dance floor they'd probably have had sex. I didn't see them,he told me after i broke up with him and he explained that was the ...

We don't seem to have much in common....will it still work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. Lately, I have been feeling that maybe we are just not there yet. I have always dreamt of having a perfect relationship where he would propose to me, get marry, have childrens, etc. I always wanted ...

Long distance ends with a low blow but we can't cut off...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

11 April 2008 (M) - Apologies as this is a bit long but I thought readers would need some good detail. My relationship with my Ex (call her M) had been a year and a half. Being long distance with her main home in Australia we had met up in England and she spent mo...

I want to plan something nice and special because I am afraid when I go on deployment she might move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 April 2008 (?) - My fiancee left arizona and went back home to here parents house. i was treating her badly and not being good to her, i am in the military and deploying soon, i want to see her when i come home but i am not sure of what we can do that wont make her ...

A friend is getting deployed soon, what can I say in order to cheer him up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - This friend of mine is getting deployed quite soon, and he was telling me that this is his third deployment in his 3 year marriage (this is his 2nd marriage) and that he´ll lose his wedding anniversary again, like kinda of complaining. Since ...

I'm confused. Are we or are we not a couple?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6067 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Okay, this is kinda long, but I really need some opinions. Two years ago I met a guy, we'll call him B, through my boyfriend at the time (they were and are good friends). He had a g/friend at the time, so we just became really good friends. To...

My emotionally challenged, never-home boyfriend! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together since August of 2006. He was in the military, discharged and has been working for a government contractor. He has been deployed for eight months of our relationship and will be gone for another three. I knew, ...

My guy met 2 girls at the same time and dated us both. He chose her and broke my heart. Why is he contacting me now though?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 April 2008 (F) - hi there - reallly needing some advice! met a man on an online dating website. We went out for three months - not long some might say but we saw each other every weekend even though he has a son from a previous relationship (which broke up 2.5 years ...