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*qadup661
writes:I want to write a letter to my girlfriend and I need some good ideas. My girlfriend lives in Southern California and I live in Northern California (about 400 miles away). She is currently 5 and 1/2 months pregnant with my son. She is with her family and I am with mine. We stayed together for 4 months before we lost our apartment. We moved with our families. We are still together but its very difficult for her and I being so far away. I'm currently working right now trying to save up so I can move and get a job closer to where she lives. She is very emotional and moody right now. We always argue on the phone. When I offer to send her money and things, she doesn't accept it from me. All I do everyday is think about her and about how much I love her, but I feel like she doesn't give a damn. I try my hardest to conversate with her on the phone but she always has a bad attitude with me. I want to write her a letter telling her how I feel, how I love her alot, and how I want to rebuild our relationship. She is very stubborn. She used to be so lovable. What would you write in the letter if you were in my situation?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Yes, man, I understand; but the CONTENTS of the letter are very important. A simple "I love you and the baby" won't do. It seems you're having more problems than just the physical distance and the fact that you lost the apartment. This is why I wanted you to tell us more about the relationship.
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reader, sqadup661 +, writes (18 April 2008):
sqadup661 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just want to write her and tell her how much I love her. But I'm not good writing letters.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (18 April 2008):
sqadup661, would you give us more details about your relationship? If you do, we can give you better opinions. You can send us private messages if you want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): when her moodiness might be because of her hormonal change due to pregnancy, and her finanicial losses and her missing you etc etc. well what you just wrote down yourself "telling her how I feel, how I love her alot, and how I want to rebuild our relationship" is what you should write!! its exactly there. just write what your heart tells you to.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Pregnancy can make you emotional and moody,as your hormones are all over the place. Go over to where she is and have a good talk with her, right now she is in no fit state to conversate with you over the phone if you are 400 miles away and you should be by her side right now.
You should be supporting her 100% and move heaven and earth to be with her, I realise it is difficult to get a job near her. But if I was you I would take any damn job if it meant being close to my loved one her hour of need.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): you aren't telling us what point you wish to get across in your letter, so I can't give you any advice as far as what you should write. I however think I know why she's being mean to you. She feels you aren't there for her and that you won't be there for her & your child in the future. I have had 2 kids in the last 2 years so I know how she's feeling. The best thing you can do at this point is try your hardest to get to where she lives and be with her. Making promises in a letter isn't going to mean s*it at this point...actions speak louder than words.
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