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writes: My fiancee left arizona and went back home to here parents house. i was treating her badly and not being good to her, i am in the military and deploying soon, i want to see her when i come home but i am not sure of what we can do that wont make her feel uncomfortable doing. i want to plan something nice and special because i am afraid when i go on deployment she might move on. what can i do?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 You're going to have to talk with her about your feelings, and hers. Why were you treating her badly? If it is stress, due to your upcoming deployment, maybe you were pushing her away?
Put yourself in her shoes, if someone you loved was treating you badly, and on top of that was going to be far away for a long time, why would you put up with that? What kind of future do you want with her?
Sorry for all the questions, but I don't think just taking her out for a nice time is going to solve the problem you've posed here.
Good luck, and all the best. And thank you for your service and dedication, I hope you come home safely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): You could try treating her right.
If you mean entertainment, ask her what she would like to do. That would be more thoughtful than you seem to be saying you were before.
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