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I hate the person who I used to love for his std and promiscuity

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

31 October 2017 (F) - I'm in love with my partner , we've been together for a year and a half, we've been through so much, specially at the beginning. The truth is, even though I thought I knew him ( we were friends for years before falling in love ) the fact is I did ...

My husband ordered diet pills for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - My husband ordered diet pills for me online without saying anything to me about it first. He said he just wanted to help me because he knows my weight bothers me. I don't know how exactly to feel about this am I wrong that him doing that bothers ...

Our 7 year relationship is in shambles. Is it over? Should I accept defeat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 7 years, and throughout the relationship we obviously had ups and downs like any other couple. However, one huge problem with us was that I had suffered some sexual trauma in my past which left it difficult for me ...

Am I seeing something that isn’t there and maybe she is just making excuses so I won’t hate her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

29 October 2017 (M) - After about 4 years my girlfriend and I broke up. It wasn’t one that I wanted at all as I was ready to purpose She has distanced herself but not totally as we still have some contact I have informed her that I am moving and we are supposed to ...

I suffer from social anxiety and it bothers me that he leaves me alone with his mother!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

29 October 2017 (F) - I am in the best relationship I have been in, but there is one little issue... My boyfriend is 24 (I am 22). He is German and I often travel to Germany to be with him, usually staying 1-3 months at a time. The rest of the time I travel a lot for...

Concerned about my mental state

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

28 October 2017 (M) - I have a big problem. My personality has changed a lot since I was a boy. I used to be a humble kid. But now when I get home after any kind of social interaction, and think about how I behaved and what people's reactions to were to things I said n ...

Girlfriend lost feelings for me - is it her depression?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2615 days ago

28 October 2017 (F) - Hi there. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. I will try and be informative but brief! Myself and my partner (now ex) couldn’t be more perfect for each other. We were together just under a year and our relationship was great. We rarely...

Why doesn't my mother believe what I am telling her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

27 October 2017 (M) - I''m a male who has aspergers syndrome, something I had when I was born which is considered a form of brain damage, ive had some form of therapies to help and been to doctors, my parents are at the end of their tether with me. I forget things a...

My husband was exposed to HIV and I am very scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

22 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I am juggling with a serious situation ., My husband has been exposed to hiv at work he is a health care provider. He is given post exposure prophylaxis now.we have to wait and see what happens in future.my husband is the best human being you ...

He is not being supportive and I am literally broken because of what is happening!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2623 days ago

21 October 2017 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months and a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. We both currently live 100 miles apart and only get to see each other once a week. We decided an abortion was the best option for us as it wou...

My boyfriend revealed a secret and my question is how do I deal with what he told me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

19 October 2017 (F) - My new boyfriend of almost 5 month has been suffering from ptsd i knew this when we first got together , he decided to be open tonight and told me a shocking secret he had kept from me , he admitted he sometimes smokes weed to help him relax and ...

She takes more than she gives and I know part of the problem is her low self-esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

19 October 2017 (M) - Hi, when I told my girlfriend that I love her she replied, for the first time, that she does as well, although she doesn't know if it's really love. She justified this with saying that she discussed the matter with her mom and when her mother asked ...

Why am I hopelessly infatuated with this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if someone could give me advice I'm with my husband for 16 years married 6 and have two wonderful children we had out up's and down's over the years I've been in and out of counselling due to child abuse and suffer with ...

What should I do about feeling inadequate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2626 days ago

18 October 2017 (F) - First off, this is quite the premature question, but tonight, its all I can think about. A year ago, I had to escape a mentally, physically, sexually, and verbally abusive relationship. It was difficult to say the least. A few months after we ...

Is masturbation gay?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

17 October 2017 (M) - If you are not thinking of anything and just masturbating for pleasure is this homosexual?...

I'm struggling with taking care of my ailing mother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

15 October 2017 (F) - I'm struggling right now. I'm feeling guilty and I just don't know what to do. About 8 months ago my mother suffered with gout. During the time she suffered from anxiety and depression. She found it hard to get out of bed. She self diagnosed herself ...

My husband and I feel trapped and it's taking a toll on our health

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

14 October 2017 (F) - I feel that my husband an I are both unhappy and have been for a while. I don't think that we are dissatisfied with each other and our marriage per se, but the difficult situation we have been living in for over a decade has taken its toll and we ...

She has gone off sex and I'm worried I'll lose her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

13 October 2017 (M) - I have a girlfriend i am 66 years old and she is 46 years old we have been together 4 years but this last 6 months she has went off sex she says she do not care she has sex or not i am getting wor...

Do any girls here go to bars alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

11 October 2017 (F) - I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and the feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make ...

How to move on after a bad relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2635 days ago

10 October 2017 (F) - Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...

I feel I am not good enough and cry everyday

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

9 October 2017 (F) - I am 25, single and VERY lonely. My now ex bf recently broke up with me because he lost feelings for me. I think it is all my fault, but he says it is not. He says his feelings fizzled out over time and insists there is no new girl. I am scared of ...

I'm pressured to get married how can I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

8 October 2017 (F) - Is it too late to have kids in your 40"s . I am 31 and single and not dating - I have chased men for the last decade and have only LAnded on abusive men. I don't know why family puts pressure on me to get married and do things by the book but they ...

My girlfriend is blaming herself for an early miscarriage.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - Dear Cupid, The other day my girlfriend had a few drinks and on the way home started going on about how she thinks she's pregnant. She hadn't done a test and was purely going off her breasts being tender and feeling "weird" plus she rambles when she...

Should I suggest to my ex she seek professional help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

6 October 2017 (M) - I recently went through a bad breakup with a woman I thought was the one. Even though she did it in a cold hearted way I still care deeply for her and have been told that she loves me just not like I love her. The relationship is in the past so I'm ...

Should I move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

6 October 2017 (F) - Hello, everyone! I am here to ask something and hear your opinions. I am a romanian girl which moved to Germany about 5 years ago. I am in school and to be honest, is going pretty well. But my problem has got nothing to do with my school. I turned ...

Is this just a slump in the relationship or should we part ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - So I desperately need some relationship advice please! Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 and a half years now, we're both 22 and we live together. We both have very good jobs and we stay at his family house (all his family live away...

My boyfriend said he wouldn't call me names again, but is this method still not acceptable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

5 October 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and in some cases it has been hard for me, having come from a emotional abusive relationship before hand, my insecurities are all over the place, and occasionally find it very hard to trust. But ...

Is this a positive sign or is she just being nice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

5 October 2017 (M) - My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I had been working on the things she didnt like about me and I sent her an email updating her on how I have been changing i.e getting better and that I love her and hopefully in future we might cross ...

I keep comparing myself and feel like a loser!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

4 October 2017 (F) - How can I stop comparing myself and feeling like a looser - I am 31 and I feel like I haven't accomplished much in life nor have I enjoyed anybting . I come from a broken home - nothing I did was ever good enough - I have two degrees a corporate job ...

How to come to terms with my academic failure?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

3 October 2017 (F) - So basically, I've spent the past two years working towards my masters degree as well as working full time. Up until this summer I've been doing really well (average grade 75, on track for a distinction), only to choke in my last few months and ...

I badly want children but my partner does not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

3 October 2017 (M) - I hope there are some people on this site who can tell me what does male broodiness feel like? Recently my fiancée and i had an abortion (i know mixed feelings and all that). Also my mother had a new baby. The combination of these two things...

I am not a masturbatory toy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

3 October 2017 (F) - My fiancé has suffered from delayed ejaculation ever since we met. For over a year he could never reach orgasm with me unless he uses his hand, closed his eyes and tuned me out. Literally I could not speak. I confronted him and it turned out he was ...

I constantly feel jealous about his exes!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

2 October 2017 (?) - Any advice on how to get past jealousy. My boyfriend has clearly had other girlfriends as we have been together only a few months. Yesterday he said about going to Italy and when I asked who with and he said his ex girlfriend from 8 years ago I feel ...