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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

I have strong feelings for a colleague who is straight! Where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I'm a girl who likes girls. I work in a conservative environment, but I have very strong feelings for a female colleague who is very straight and it's been more than half a year already. I've tried to give up as there's not much I can do, but every ...

Is my husband gay or just trying things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - My husband and I have been married 20 years. We got married young. He has never seemed to have as high sex drive as me and initially I just accepted it as that. Over the years I discovered that he had interactions with others....not sure how far it ...

She already has a boyfriend and I'm the first woman she's been with. Am I making her life too complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I live in johannesburg now in village eastern cape visit my grandmother only my cousins knows that I am swing girls. I meet other cute aNd smart girl she's cute enough and the type of girls I likes she offer to be my friend and close friend but was ...

My girlfriend's mother seemed to like me but has suddenly changed her mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a dilemma that I need a little help with. I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for just over 7 months and we are both 20. I have stayed at her moms house (she still lives with her mom)a few times be...

I have longterm feelings for a friend, who also used to be my teacher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Well, here it goes. It's a bit lengthy, so I apologize in advance. When I was younger I had a really hard time making friends my own age because I was so serious (maybe some would say mature). I just had to grow up quickly for personal reasons....

I feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Dear cupid agony aunts and uncles, I am writing because I do not know where to go from here. So the details: I am a gay man, and I met this wonderful gay man who lives a good 7 mins away from me. And well in the beginning he was very attentiv...

Is she dropping hints or am I mistaken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Im not sure if im interpreting the signs correctly. I have a female coworker who is very touchy feely with me. Im lesbian so it doesn't bother me, she however don't know my sexual orientation. Anyhow, I notice when we are around each other she make ...

What should I expect on a first date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I have been a closet crossdresser for a few years. Recently I had a pro do a makeover on me and was finally able to see myself able to pass with no problem. Now that I decided to go out into the world a friend of mine set me up on a blind date with ...

My husband has told me he is gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Last night my husband admitted to me he was gay. He said he didn't want to have these feelings and won't follow up on them, he wants to stay married to me and have sex with me. He said he does like women, but only certain select women, has never had ...

I'm drawn to a woman I just met and I'm not even gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - So I was at a party and I was just talking to m friends then suddenly this new girl in town walked in and I couldnt help but notice how pretty she is. But over the night I cant help but look at her. So finally I decided to talk to her and she's not ...

Should I come out to him, or is he just being jokey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless ...

My girlfriend told me she doesn't like girls anymore then broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - My gf of 6yr recently up n told me she doesnt like girls anymore but she loves me. I asked how is that possible and she said it faded. So we ended up breaking up and getting bk together and she started acting distant from me. I came home fromwrk ...

Am I being mean or is she trying to use me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - I know lots of you guys can give me insight because we all in some way felt there was a person who wanted to use us in some way. I appreciate all advice. Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating a good month or two. We hardly spend any time ...

How To Get Through The Holidays After A Breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3964 days ago

21 December 2013 (?) - It is approaching the Holidays and the New Year, and many of us ended relationships in the year 2013. Some of you have been single following a breakup for a lot longer; but you start to reminisce about the good old times, when you were all cozy with ...

She got so drunk she can't remember hours of her night out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - my girlfriend of a year and a half went out last night on bourbon street in new orleans with her brother and got black out drunk and seperated from him. said she doesn't even remember how she got back to her hotel room this morning and can't recall ...

I love my boyfriend but want to have sex with his sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - I am 25yrs girl who dating guys bt also like girls I do have a BF and his caring and lovely eccidentally he have also a sister who like girls too I love my BF and I also atractive to his sister one day me and her sister go out together and endup ...

I'm jealous over his pictures of female celebrities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 December 2013 (?) - hi, advice please. i'm 19 and gay. i'm with a 44 yr old guy (dont judge) for a couple of months now. i love him and he says he loves me, i've loved him since i was 14. he split with his long term girlfriend 3 months back, i took a chance, he ...

Even though I'd never do anything about it, is this attraction wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

16 December 2013 (M) - I am in high school and I play football. Since it is a high school football team, we have players from 9th grade to 12th grade. I am friends with a lot of the players in all grades. The problem is that I am beginning to be attracted to one...

My boyfriend doesn't like gay people

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has some troubling attitudes on life, and I don't know what I can do (if anything) about it. The one that comes to the forefront more often than others is that he dislikes gay people. Not to the point where he would commit hate crim...

Why are gay women so picky?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 December 2013 (F) - I am a gay female, quieter, average looking, feminine and looking for same,dating (which makes it harder) friends I don't care. Am not into the bar and club scene, am getting too old for it and am a non drinker and dont feel comfortable around h...

Looking to start a FWB -- any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

10 December 2013 (M) - Hi. I'm a 23 year old gay college student and I'm a virgin. I recently joined adam4adam.com since I'm really busy this school year and I don't really have time for a relationship, but like most my age, I have needs. So earlier today I was talking to ...

Any advice on piercings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

9 December 2013 (F) - Ok be warned explicit content! My fiance and I are both woman and have been together for two years. Our sex life is awesome but I have always considered getting a clit piercing. Recently I was introduced to a friend who works at a reputable pierci...

I am still not sure where I went wrong, or even if I went wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

7 December 2013 (M) - I went on a date with this guy, I thought it went really well, he initially suggested meeting up again, and then later when I said we should watch a movie sometime, he seemed keen, he then suggested we go back to mine. But then we hooked up and he ...

I don't want to share! I am very drawn to her, but she's married. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

6 December 2013 (F) - So I'm a lesbian. Recently a woman on a dating site messaged me. She seems very lovely as she is beautiful, smart, funny and we have a lot in common. The problem is, she's married to a man. It sounds like they have an open relationship deal or ...

I am struggling to accept it for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 December 2013 (F) - I'm trying to come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual, and I'm really struggling. I've always been a big LGBTQ rights activist, done fundraisers and been to gay pride. My parents wouldn't have a problem with me being bisexual, which is not ...

Is this what they call a FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F) - I'm having this ongoing thing with this woman where we have sex, dinner, movies, coffee and I got medicine for her when she had the flu. We are both women and single. She says we are dating but also said she isn't keen on a relationship. I know ...

What the hell just happened in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 December 2013 (F) - My (now ex) broke up with me a couple days ago. She had said something hurtful to me and then all hell broke loose. FYI, I am a lesbian. I had applied to two programs of completely different nature for the spring. My first choice I didn't get int...

Foster mother made rude comments to my wife about me, and I'm concerned about my foster brother. Should I say something?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

1 December 2013 (F) - My foster mother, who I lived with for 6 years, tried to badmouth me to my new wife while I ran an errand with my little foster brother(he still lives with her). I am dumbfounded. See, I was a good kid, as in the only things she can say about me was ...