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Archived questions from: December, 2018 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I feel like the laughing stock because I want boundaries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

31 December 2018 (F) - I'm wondering if this situation is worth breaking up over. Right now we're on the brinks because I'm mad about it. The guy I've been seeing for almost a year now is a hippie, I'm not, though i like to party with hippies sometimes. We had a brief ...

Accused of being antisocial for turning down a guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

30 December 2018 (F) - My dad loves to accuse me of being anti social and saying "that's why you have no friends". We were at a friends place and there is a single guy there who I see a couple times a year. We aren't friends (acquaintances) and we do not share interests. ...

My new job demands much more of my time! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2145 days ago

28 December 2018 (F) - Three weeks ago I started a job in my career path that I’ve been praying for for a long time now. Great location for me, benefits, union, pay is good, the whole nine yards. I feel so overwhelming blessed for me and my family. The only downside to ...

Should I stay friends with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2141 days ago

28 December 2018 (F) - My close friend really confuses me sometimes. When we get too close she pushes me away...when i go far, she pulls me close. Intially we used to talk a lot over phone chats etc. Now she says she doesnt like it. She used to get jealous of other people ...

I think this guy is holding back from me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - got into online dating. Had a couple of dates with a fab guy. i could see him as the one. maybe early but theres something so different in a fantastic way we have also taken it slow we chatted for 2 month before meeting. we have both deleted our ...

Does he still like me? Am I over thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

27 December 2018 (F) - I ve been seeing this lad for a couple of months. We spend hours talking and he always asks about my life. On nights out he will.stay with me all night in the club rather than his friends. When people ask us what we are sometimes he says I m his mrs ...

She sent me a text saying "lets break up" but I didn't even know we were in a relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - My close friend keeps refering to our friendship as "Relationship". Recently we had a fight and she texted me saying "Lets Break Up".Does that mean we are into a relationship?...

Should I even try to remain friends with her after the way she acted?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - The other day I went to dinner with my friend who I actually considered one of my best friend so we were having dinner and it w and We ordered our food and both of ours took a long time to come but hers came before mine and she ate hers and she ...

Male friend wants to discuss sexual fantasies ....he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2145 days ago

25 December 2018 (F) - No, I am not looking to make him my boyfriend Just want to know if its normal for men with girlfriends to want to talk to their female friends about their sexual fantasies? he even asked if i had a boyfriend and when i asked why he said because...

My close relationship with my friends has changed ever since they had a baby

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

24 December 2018 (F) - Not sure what to do with my friends. We've been friends for a few years and we got on really well always having dinner together and drinks. Celebrating birthdays, Christmas's and new years together. We were really close. Then they announced they ...

My friend has gotten himself involved with a bad girl and I want to help him but unsure what to do

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2125 days ago

24 December 2018 (F) - I'm worried about a guy friend as he's got himself involved with a girl who is bad news. Hes started distancing himself from everyone who's warning him and is distancing himself from close friends She's a complete bitch sorry to say - take a mon...

I'm really sad and discouraged with my life

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2146 days ago

23 December 2018 (M) - Anyone have any advice for someone in late 20’s. I have studied to high level, but don’t have job anymore. It’s been half a year, and I simply cannot afford anything. Friends kindly ask why I don’t have work yet,l. I guess that’s their way of ...

Is it possible to be a semi-reclusive artist and still contribute something of value to the local town? Please share similar experiences!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

21 December 2018 (F) - Has anyone here got any experience of settling in a new country where you don't speak the language and are not sure how to fit in? I am thinking of buying a 2nd home - which I will spend about 6 months of the year in. I know that sounds extravaga...

My friend has been asking why she can't get a partner. Should I tell her what I think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2145 days ago

20 December 2018 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles! My friend recently started asking me seriously (up until now it was purely rhetorical) why she can't find a partner. Should I tell her what I think? It's just an opinion, I'm not a shrink. I'm afraid that she migh...

I’m having trouble forgiving and forgetting! How do I get past this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2148 days ago

18 December 2018 (F) - I posted about a month or so back about a situation with my boyfriend. In the mist of an argument i took him to his old roommates place to check his mail and after about ten minutes inside i finally walked up to find out what was taking him so long ...

I like my friend's twin brother, will she think I am weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - I am in 8th grade and have a friend in 9th grade... she has a twin brother and I really like him... I've seen him staring back at me and I think he likes me back but I'm not sure. I want to ask her but I don't want things to be weird; especially if ...

I'm waiting for someone who clearly doesn't want me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

16 December 2018 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we’ve sort of been in and out of each other’s lives since. He’s struggled with his feelings and knowing what he wants, I finally thought we were in the same place but he completely backed off, saying that his heart an...

How do I move on from a girl who has a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2152 days ago

16 December 2018 (M) - I met a girl in September at college and was interested in her from the first time I saw her. She was very quiet and never really spoke to anyone but she just captured my attention. Two weeks in we had to pair up for an assignment, and I asked her ...

I don't know if she will come back or has moved on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 979 days ago

15 December 2018 (M) - Can anyone please help me what I did wrong or is it she is being self centered? Well this cancer girl, she is my friend and its been 2 years for our friendship. Months ago I confronted her about why she was being mean with this another girl in our g...

I'm pregnant and my friend isn't supportive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

12 December 2018 (F) - I am pregnant and so excited about it but my best friend isn't really happy for me and keeps saying all the wrong things time after time. I've told her I don't need her input but she just won't shut up. The worst thing is she thinks she is my...

I've grown to care for a sex worker that I see and feel I want to be more than her friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2161 days ago

12 December 2018 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a prostitute for some time now. When I started seeing her, I was in a very bad place emotionally (borderline depression, work pressure, family issues). We didn't have sex on the first few "dates". We mainly talked an...

Should I tell my friend that I am dating his ex wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2157 days ago

12 December 2018 (M) - I'm dating a freiends ex wife. He's a good friend but don't see him much, 1 time in the last two years. He remarried and his ex wife was also remarried and divorced for 5 year. Is it important that I still tell him?...

How do I deal with my pregnant friend without upsetting her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2162 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - My friend recently got pregnant. Now everything i do results in fight. I try to look after her but she tells me i am being irritative. I try to make her mood happy by sending nice texts so she says she is bored of them. Yesterday she said somethings ...

Am I being unrealistic. Is it too late to change my thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2163 days ago

11 December 2018 (F) - I really hope that men in particular won’t take this question. Personally because obviously it’s not aimed at anyone and I realise that there must be good men in the world but I want to ask if any women have experienced similar to me and how they ...

I like my boyfriend but get all flustered when the crush is around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2164 days ago

9 December 2018 (F) - Hi im a 20 years old female from philippines I have a boyfriend and we are already dating for more than a year now,but before we started dating the one i used to like is one of his friends,i even once tried to make a move on him first but he rejec...

I'm attrached to my close female friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2165 days ago

8 December 2018 (M) - My closest friend, who is a female (I’m male) likes girls, but I really like her. Sometimes I get this vibe that she likes me too and could be bi, and I’ve indirectly asked her and she says “She’ll date whoever she wants to date”. I don’t know wha...

My ex sent my nastiest most private messages on social media for all of my friends to see

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2167 days ago

5 December 2018 (F) - Hello. I left an emotionally, verbally and ultimately physically abusive relationship. I will not sugar coat and say I did not lash back out. I hit him back and screamed and cursed back stooping to his level instead of leaving. This went on for 10 ...