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anonymous
writes:My close friend keeps refering to our friendship as "Relationship". Recently we had a fight and she texted me saying "Lets Break Up".Does that mean we are into a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2018): Any on-going exchange and connection between two or more people is a "relationship." Only she knows in what context she means it, when referring to what your connection with her was.
Are either of you gay?
It might have been more emotional for her than it was for you.
If she wants it to be over, whatever it is; give her what she wants. Then it really doesn't matter how she defines it.
My take on this is that she may have had an attraction to you; and it turns out you don't reciprocate her kind of feelings. She may have figured you were picking-up on her signals; but now she realizes she may be wrong about that.
If you sensed all along she is gay, but just played along with it; end it as she has requested. You don't seem to want to go there; if you sent us a post about it. Seems you ought to know what kind of connection you had between you.
As far as she is concerned, you're breaking-up.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (26 December 2018):
 Is this friend of a similar age to you? If so, is she a bit immature for her age? Sending someone a text like that sounds very childish, regardless of their "relationship" status.
It all sounds a little strange. In your shoes I would keep my distance from this lady and not even be close friends with her to save any future "misunderstandings".
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 December 2018):
 I agree with Code Warrior,
I would spell it out to her that you you weren't IN a relationship but if she wan'ts to have no contact, so be it, then you BLOCK her and move on.
Though it all sounds rather immature for a couple of "friends" in their 30's acting like this...
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