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Friends: Help and advice

A choice between Craig and Tom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2391 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I’ve been with Craig for over three years and I do love him, although I’ve never been sure he’s the one. He’s a great support among many other great attributes, however he has no drive and never will, he’s lazy, he doesn’t dress properly for work ...

My ex boyfriend is now messaging my friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2395 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - Dated my ex boyfriend for 6 months, and we admittedly rushed into things which was probably where we went wrong. We’ve been split up about a month now and he’s messaging my friend, but the girl herself hasn’t told me, one of our friends has. I’m...

I thought we were friends but he blocked me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2395 days ago

29 April 2018 (F) - I had met this guy 2 years ago. He came up to me at school and asked me if I wanted to study the bible. He was with a group of friends. So I Said yes.at that time he was our campus minister for the young adults In out church. And for the longest ...

Am I wrong to brush aside red flags?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2397 days ago

28 April 2018 (F) - So almost 24 and have never dated or been approached or even remotely shown interest in by any guy. And that's fine. I've never really been into the idea of relationships and never felt like I needed to be in one to be happy. I'm very content in my ...

My best friend tried to kiss my girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

27 April 2018 (M) - Hey guys. Last night my best friend (of like 8 years) tried to kiss my fiance (of 10 years). We were all out drinking, but I had left early because i was feeling gross. I had no trust issues leaving them. They didn't know i was there, as i had ...

Long time friend wants to be more than friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

26 April 2018 (F) - Hello agony aunts. Im facing some troubles and dealing with my guy friend's behavior towards me. My guy friend is being cold, sarcastic and mean to me in the past few weeks. Okay well let me start with this, he actually loves me, he told me before ...

I'm a hopeless romantic who all the girls want as a friend, not as a date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

25 April 2018 (M) - Just a little background: I'm a male virgin who's never been kissed and I've only been on one date. I'm usually the friend, not the boyfriend type. I still am friends with girls I've met and befriended. However it is a little frustrating bein...

Why does this woman I barely know keep texting me to vent ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

25 April 2018 (F) - I’m a single and quieter living gay woman. I’m pale and average looking but feminine and not manly. Not looking for manly women. I’m on an app for Gay and bi women. Like all apps there’s players and catfishers Straight women playing games...

We are both too shy to say hi to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2398 days ago

24 April 2018 (F) - There's this guy that I like and I know he likes me back because he always walks past me and a bunch of other signs over afew weeks, explaining these will defeat the purpose of the question. The main question is we are both too shy to talk to each ...

Should I tell him I’m gay before moving in or not say anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

23 April 2018 (M) - I've never had many guy friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only starI've never had many male friends but I've become a bit closer to a guy I knew since about college but only started getting friendly with ...

What should a person do .....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - What should a person do if they are falling for someone, and that person tells them they have a certain type a woman they like, and it's not you, and they don't have time but maybe one day a week, they are to busy to see you more then that, you live ...

I muust have a "hate me" sign above my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

22 April 2018 (F) - I’m unlikeable it seems, people don’t “take” to me land aren’t friendly. I feel like giving up on people. I Try to be nice and get ignored, uninvited, dismissed and forgotten. Please, how can I be more likeable? I listen, I smile and...

My friend is upset none of us can afford to go to his wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

22 April 2018 (M) - An old friend who moved from Berlin where I live to San Diego is getting married. 5 years ago we were great friends and housemates. As time went on, I recognized we are very different and have different value systems. His dream is to find a partner ...

A mutual friend has boundary problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

22 April 2018 (M) - I have this problem with a friend of mine (we are both gay men). He is very close to my best friend. This friend, who can sometimes be great and at other times be utterly creepy. He can be the kindest, most helpful person and in a whim switch to a ...

Friends of 25 years don’t include me anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

21 April 2018 (F) - At the moment im trying to clear debt i have so have to stop spending where i dont need to. I messaged my 4 closest friends saying id have to cut back on nights out round pubs as i cant afford to waste money. Having each other round at each others ...

Should I give this toxic person another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

20 April 2018 (F) - Should I give my “friend” another chance? I met this coworker from my parents employer who is single like me and we started chatting - I work a lot so we developed a friendship. Long story short she is just as miserable as I am but also guy crazy. ...

I'm still being picked on at school, one girl said its because I'm clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

18 April 2018 (F) - THIS IS WHAT I WROTE BEFORE: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/please-help-me-stand-up-for-myself.html These friends are the only friends I have and when they give me the silent treatment or start rumors it really hurts! I pretty much end up begg...

Why is she so attention seeking??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - Yesterday a 44 yr old female work colleague with 5 kids had her wisdom teeth out,she posted a post surgery selfie of her swollen face on our works fbook page, Is this pure attention seeking? She’s a quiet and good worker, invisible.. like...

My boyfriend doesn't tell anyone about me but wants me to move in with him ... what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 5 months and were exsclusive.. I'm finding myself in love with him he treats me well except for one issue he doesn't tell anyone about me, not friends which he only has a few not co workers not his family... He tells me ...

He compliments others and insults me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2410 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - My partner of many years verbally attacked me for the things I do to 'beautify' myself such as have hair nails and skin appointments etc done . I have never had cosmetic surgery and am not going to. He says I'm insecure and he wants someone who is ...

Should I try harder to make up for his lack of effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

16 April 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. I love him and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But for the past year now, I feel like he's been neglecting me. He's a hard-working man and I love that about him. But he doesn't ...

I am in the wrong for talking to my married coworker as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - I am in the wrong for talking to my married coworker as a friend? Hello aunts I want to preference that I would never commit adultery - simply I don’t want the karma and believe in it . Long story short the colleague that hired me is 44 I’m 32 ...

Is his message to me a cry for help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

15 April 2018 (F) - It's not that we talked much, but we were friends, well acquaintances at least. Anyway, it's been years since we've talked. We were in college like 9-10 years ago, but friends on social media. Anyway, out of the blue, he randomly sends me a message ...

Can we really be future friends respectively?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - Same sex best friends for four years and we crossed the line and had emotional and physical affIr for 4 months. We are both married and won’t leave our husbands and families. We still work together and continue to have lunch and talk at work only ...

What does this married man mean when he says he finds me physically attractive?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

14 April 2018 (F) - I've met this guy at work. He is married. We have a lot of things in common.He is a very private man. He doesn't talk much to anybody until I started working there. He said he likes me and enjoy being his friend. He is always careful about what he ...

Is he interested or not, or is he just shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2412 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - A friend of mine has been trying for months to hook me up with a guy she knows, but I really hate being set up so I've been brushing it off. She constantly tells me how alike he and I are; we're both family oriented, determined, somewhat shy around ...

Everything I do my friend copies.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - So ive had the same best friend for atleast ten years, we have had our ups and downs but anything that would end a friendship.. But my peoblem is, lately, shes been doing everything EXACTLY like me.. Like let me explain, if i say im changing...

We're having sex, he has another girl and I have feelings and a third girl is spreading nasty rumours.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2361 days ago

13 April 2018 (F) - This is a little bit long winded so i do apologise in advance. I went to the pub one with my friend and she introduced me to one of her guy friends and kept teasing us both that we are both single. That night i plucked up the courage to messa...

I'm worried about my boyfriend's smoking.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

12 April 2018 (F) - Im in a relationshio for almost 8 months with my boyfriend,we are like best friends .we Tell eachother everything,But lately he started smoking like 1-2 cigarettes per day and I found out because my best friend told me he saw him.when I asked him ...

I'm falling for the new girl and my current GF is jealous.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, we live together and on the whole we're very happy. I've recently met another girl and just click with her so well- we've hung out as a three a few times and to start with my gf really g...

I've never had a boyfriend but am considering losing my virginity.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2411 days ago

10 April 2018 (F) - 36 F, never had a boyfriend, considering losing virginity So I'm 36 f, considering having sex for the first time. Myriad reasons it hasn't happened yet I suppose. I've never had a boyfriend before...men just don't seem to be attracted to me ...

How do I deal with my long time "best friend" who trashed me in a letter to my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2399 days ago

9 April 2018 (F) - Hi. I have been friends with M for 30 years now. We met in high school and despite sometimes 1 or 2 years of MIA's scattered throughout where we drifted apart, we came back together and resumed our friendship. It was as if we had never lost touch. ...

My ex has said he would never marry me, but I want him back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

8 April 2018 (F) - Does my ex still have feelings for me or not?. I dated him for a year and a half from 2015 until 2017. Then I left him for another man that we both know, who I was in a relationship with for nearly a year ( he broke up with me three months ago). My ...

My old nemesis might sabotage my new life

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2419 days ago

4 April 2018 (F) - I am seriously thinking of moving to a new city to start my life over. At 50, I know this won't be easy, and I want to think ahead and do as much as I possibly can to get things off on the right track. Partly this is because I have tried for 23 ...

Is there no one for me? How can I get a guy to be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

3 April 2018 (F) - I think I’m meant to be alone forever. I’m a junior in high school, and No matter what, I cannot find a guy who remotely shows interest in me. I am good-looking (not trying to be stuck-up) but I never talk in school. I go to school everyday without ...

Please help me stand up for myself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

2 April 2018 (F) - I am sick of my friends not listening to me and then punishinhg me with rumors and the silent treatment. OK. Sometimes, it's fun for me, JUST TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEBODY. It's fun and it's safe and I can feel all happy inside and I don't have to ...

His neediness bothers me. Should I feel guilty for blocking him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

2 April 2018 (F) - Okay so I've only known this guy for 2 months only, he is at my university. He seemed nice at first and we hang out together, but then he started to creep me out with his neediness and him being too clingy. I was nice with him and i gave him hints ...

My ex is coming back into my life when I have a new partner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2420 days ago

1 April 2018 (M) - I need some advice, 4 years ago I started dating my best friend, we were together for about 8 months and it was perfect! However I made mistakes in the relationship such as being too close to her and so i drove her away and didnt handle the brea...

Why is my coworker blanking me and what should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2423 days ago

1 April 2018 (F) - I’ve beem in my job 21 months. Like it. 90% colleagues younger. I’m a worker, not a boss or manager. I’m fine with this. Not all of us are meant to be bosses.. 90% managers and my boss are younger. 2 are older, one my age. I have no...