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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2010 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why did she text this, what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - So I'm texting a girl that's a friend and I told her I was heading to 24hr fitness to go and work out but I wrote "to go and work out till I fall, not actually till I fall" and then she texted me a one word text saying oil in all caps Why did s...

I'm gay, he's 'straight'? I'm absolutely in love with him and don't know what to do...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Wow, Ok. I'm 22 and openly gay, and so I have this friend. We met a couple months ago at a party and I immediately had an attraction towards him. He's adorable, funny, sweet, kind and "straight" supposedly. Everyone thinks he is gay or ...

Do I just accept my girlfriend's fantasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, well I’m with my gf 1 year and 3months; we love each other etc etc… Well a couple of days ago, my gf forgot her cell phone at my place. Well I’m a guy who doesn’t read sms of my gf. But when she forgot her phone the same day she got a ...

Think he has a girlfriend... but I also think he likes me... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Ok, so I met this one guy that is friends with one of my best friends. The first time I saw him, my friend kept on telling me that we were flirting, and it was way obvious. So far three different people that know him have said that he likes me. ...

Crush overload!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hey everyone!! alright, so i am a freshman in high school, and i'm having a bit of an issue with guys. I'm in marching band, and i have a huge crush on at least 10 upper-classman guys. The problem is that i tend to act obnoxious around them and I ...

Secretly in love with him and wanting to give him space to heal after his breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - so, ive worked with and known this guy for 2.5 years. never worked directly with one another but would see him a few times a week. a couple of months ago i stopped working for the company and started as an independent contractor, so i still come ...

Drug overdoses in Canada... I'm looking for statistics. Can anyone help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I recently lost someone from a drug overdose. I'm trying to find out how many people die yearly from drug-overdoses in Canada, but I cant find anything. There are loads of articles but no statistics. If you have any information or how to find it, ...

How can I reel him in???

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24 October 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do, my friend shakiel has this friend, lets call him J. He is so cute! But we have the same personalities and they clash, not fighting wise. For example if i tell him to shut up say he says it back. That never happen...

How can I make friends again after being betrayed by my so called best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I told a friend, well i thought she was a friend about 2 years ago that am into girls and guys i thought i could trust her with my secret because i was too scared to tell my parents. i was afraid they wouldn't accept me. well the next day i walked ...

Controlling relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have been this my guy on and off for over 6 years, and seeing as im only 20 we have grown up together. When we meet i was seeing his best friend in 10th grade, and his friend was my first real boyfriend... i didnt know what i was doing just hav...

Does the PE teacher like me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I have a young male PE teacher in my school and to be quite honest we have ALWAYS gotten along well. He became quite a confidante to me and i found myself telling him about my epilepsy which i feel i cant talk to many people about. I never made any ...

I wish I could forget him even though I liked him...

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24 October 2010 (F) - I feel depressed as having come back from a lovely cruise once again there was a young man who works on there far younger than me although on two cruises we have had a lot of eye flirting and looking in certain ways. I bought him a small gift so ...

Weird situation? I like her but there's a problem!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl in summer. She really enjoyed messing with me, to the point I'd get a bit angry, like taking my stuff and pushing me. Time passed. I never thought much of her. Towards the end of the summer, we started talking on fb for long times. She ...

Why is he playfully teasing me despite not knowing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - I'm new and even though there are other new girls as well, there's this really good-looking and popular guy slightly younger than I am who "picks on" me and playfully teases me. I've already got plenty of friends and I'm not a nerd or anything but ...

Should I believe her when she says they just made out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - well my luck always seems to get worse when I don't think it could. The girl I love or loved most likely had sex with one of my best friends. She says they only made out but at this point I don't believe her cause she has lied before and I have ...

Is he only interested in me for the sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hi everyone at dear cupid Im very lost and confused at the moment i really really like this guy have done for many months even when he got a gf i liked him,(which he has since split with) Anyway yes i have slept with him a few times but nothing...

He sends me songs and tells me what they mean to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - What does it mean if a guy sends you songs all of the time? I think he that he likes but never really says. He spends a lot of time picking these songs out and tells me what they remind him of. He even sends songs for me. The songs he sends me a ...

She is single again and I would like to pick up where we left off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I met a girl I shared very strong chemistry with. However before I could ask her out, she was approached by her old friend she knew from a longtime ago and she decided to go out with him. It did not last longer though and she is now single again. I ...

I understand boundaries but I still want to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Having a major dilemma, Im 21. One of my closest friends was going out with this girl about 2 years ago. They went out for a year and a half and then broke up mutually. Over the duration of the relationship I became close with her and we became fr...

He deletes his emails and texts which makes me worry

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hello. I'm very confused about my fiancé's behavior lately. He works in a liquor company where they travel every now and then, he is on the phone all day and working on computer as well (home office). It seems that lately all he cares is the stock ...

His best friend says he likes me, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi everyone Ive been friends with this guy for a while now lets call him Ben hes awesome really funny smart nice and decent bloke and i really like him.Everyone says he fancies me but i honestly cant see it like when were talking hell be really ...

Is it wrong I don't want him to go on a sleepover with other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - he has been asked to go on a sleep over with this boy matt, who is 2 years older than him, and his girl mate who is the same age. I don't really want him to go, but I cant explain why, its not because I don't trust him because I do. but he thinks ...

I want to ask him if we are a couple or FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Ive been seeing my big brothers friend. At first my brother didnt know, but now its out in the open everyone knows. But now Im confused. We spend alot of time together. I see him almost everyday, he calls everyday, we text throughout the day. And I ...

I felt like an object again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts. I am in some urgent need for advice here.Hope you can help me. Sadly I carry a very traumatic past on my shoulders. A few years back I was kidnapped and raped by an acquaintance and for a long time I was nothing but a walking zombie. I ...

I just broke up with my girlfriend but did I blow things out of proportion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5144 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I've been with my GF for a little over a year now, During that year we had broken up for about a month and a half. She started seeing this guy. I started dating around too. eventually we ended up getting back together. This guy that she was dating s...

In love with a married woman for years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - I have been in love with a friend for years, we are both married to other people and have kids. I know I shouldn't do anything but I know she is unhappy with her partner. She is my sole mate and i cant stop thinking about her. What should I do?...

I'm 13 and like my friends 19 year old sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - Ok well I just started having feelings for my best friends sister who is 19 years old but the problem is I'm 13 yr old boy... His sister and i talk alot and are kinda close but I don't know what to do... Help plz...

My birthday and he put friends ahead of me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - Tomorrow is my birthday, which is a sunday. I had previously hinted to him that I'd rather go out on saturday night instead of my actual birthday. At the time he encouraged me to go out with my other friends, and was vague about whether he wanted to ...

Why doesn't she want our relationship to be 'official'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

24 October 2010 (M) - My best friend and I lost our virginities to each other back in the beginning of June right after we graduated from high school. Yes, she is a girl and yes, I am a guy. Anyway, she asked me if I'd be okay with taking her virginity considering she ...

After arguements my best friend refuses to talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - if any body can give a good advice..i havent talk to the girl who has been my bestfriend for years..she said said she doenst know when she will talk me.. we had arguments but i dont think they were that strong to send our friendship to the ...

You've got a friend in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

24 October 2010 (F) - hi im a guy from the UK and theres this guy i want like to be friends with *this may sound wierd* but where like two completely people im like long hair and hes like a trouble maker. ive beeen in his class for over a year i sit next to him in m...