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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi,so basically I've been in love with this guy that is my ex-bestfriends older brother!When her and I were bestfriends this other girl said stuff about her that wasnt true (which she happens to tell me now) and I got mad at that ex bestfriend and stopped talking to her and being her friend. Recently another friend of mine had a crush on this guy (the guy that I happen to be crushing on) and she would quite often invite him to get togethers and parties (along with his sister).So I got to know him and now I happen to be in love with him. My friend that once crushed on him says shes over him, but why do I keep feeling wrong - like maybe a slut or whore - for feeling this way??And recently he added me on fb, and we had a few conversations.And I'd also like to be friends with the exbestfriend, but im scared that what if she knows that I've been talking to her brother and thinks that I only want to be her friend for her brother which isn't true, i want to be her friend for her...Help would be much appreciated...
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reader, CJH  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Honesty is the best policy. Contact this ex friend, tell her about your feelings for her brother and tell her you want to be friend again swell! It wouldn't look good if you hid the thing with her brother and she discovered it at a later date would it? Just come clean and see what she says.
You say you're in love with the guy guy the way? Is thus just after a couple of chats on facebook or have you been hooking up face to face?
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