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Why is it her friends can look at me but she can't ?

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Question - (20 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *ostinlove42211 writes:

So theres this girl who once before looked me in the eye for a long period of time, like we were the only ones in the room and seemed so into me, in deep meaningful way, for a prolonged time (5 or 6 secs) but she cant seem to look at me any other time in the eye and never for a more than a second - she looks away when i catch her or when she looks and sees im looking quickly looks away. once this year she saw me and paniced and ran into the toilet... kinda shy way.

one ocassion she went to push rubbish in the bin and turned round facing straight ahead, then glanced at me, saw i was looking and quickly looked away and sat back down. the whole time her friends would look round a quite a few times but she wouldnt.

When i see her she cant look round at me or look at me when facing me at all, but her mates do and they dont seem shy about it or give a toss. one of them had their back to me, then she turned her body round and just looked at me... not laughing or mocking me, but a serious way... seems like shes hinting something to me

oh and finally last year she would talk to me until almkst 2am and she started the flirting with me. her mate even looked at her in the canteen, then me and smiled at me. again last year her mates would look but she couldnt. she even got really jealous and mad when i said i was getting to know some other girl

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (20 December 2010):

rcn agony auntWhy haven't you asked her out yet? I think that should be your move, when it seems she has been giving you all the signs to do so. You two had that deep few seconds. Do you think you're the only one who saw or felt the depth. This would give good reason why she doesn't look at you more often. All the signs of her attraction to you is there. Now it's your move. Ask her out.

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