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writes:I have a friend she has been with her bf for a few months and she started talking to an old friend of hers... She started sending pictures of herself to him in her bra and him pictures of himself with out clothes. i told her that i think its cheating but she said no.... Is she or is she not cheating?
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reader, Hyz'fantasieGyrl  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Yes..It is cheating because shes going against the trust of her man and doing something that he wouldn't approve of with some one else. Tell her to put her self in his shoes, what if he was sending girls nude pictures of himself how would she feel!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Yeah it's cheating. It's a bit of physical cheating mixed with some emotional cheating because she is sending those pics either to get something in return or to have that kind of relationship with the guy.
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reader, 1glassheart +, writes (21 December 2010):
Yup. thats cheating. she isnt serious about her boyfriend.
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reader, ilovetoro +, writes (21 December 2010):
That cheating...tell her to cut the crap. That's not right of her to do that behind her boyfriend's back. Think of it this way. Would YOU like it if YOUR boyfriend was sending pictures of himself to another girl, and the other girl was sending him pictures back?
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reader, rcn +, writes (21 December 2010):
 Yes this would be a form of cheating or inappropriate behavior for having a boyfriend who has no idea this is going on. For example, when having a boyfriend, should those pictures be going to him and not to another guy. This crosses the boundaries of appropriate flirting and is wrong, even if she doesn't see the word "cheating" as defining her actions.
So, he sends her pictures to. It makes it seems as if she wants a little variety and not be tied down to one guy. I know there is the phrase "you can look buy don't touch" but where is the looking line drawn. If she was out with him, and he was looking at another girl and asked the other girl to take her cloths off so he could get a better look, "granted if he didn't get slapped", would she be offended?
Tell her, "great, it's not cheating, so you don't mind if we call your boyfriend and let him know....." Because if it wasn't cheating, his knowing would not be an issue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): It's on the line of cheating in my opinion. It isn't physically cheating, but it's basically verbally cheating. It's wrong, anyway. You should tell her to stop, I'm sure her boyfriend wouldn't see it as 'not cheating'.
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