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writes:It was our christmas party at University last night and we all out for drinks afterwards. I ended up spending most of the night hanging out with a girl I get on with on the course. We where both drunk and things where a bit flirtatious between us all night long but not intentially going anywhere, just having a good time. Me an my partner have been arguing a lot recently so it was nice to have the attention from another girl who enjoyed my company. Towards the end of the night we where both a little too drunk and I dont exactly know how it happened but we kissed each other. Soon after the girl got upset with herself because she too is in a relationship and we went our seperate ways. Now partners aside, I'm worried about how to approach this girl when I see her next. Should I email her and try and sort it out beforhand so next year at uni isn't awkward or do I just try and ignore it and avoid her?
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reader, Sex_counsellor  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 Just a one off drunken night out. They happen. I wouldn't worry about it. Leave the subject alone unless she wishes to bring it up.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (20 December 2010):
(Oops, typo: I meant "your" mind, not "her".)
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (20 December 2010):
I would sort it out beforehand. You both seem to realize the mistake you've made. No need to get awkward around eachother; it will only make it more obvious something happened between you two.
As for your gf, you need to make up her mind whether to tell her or not and what to do with the relationship. To me, when someone has crossed the line and kissed someone else (drunk or no, that's not an excuse) the end of the relationship is already in sight. Also, you'll have to ask yourself the question: if the girl hadn't gotten upset with herself, would you have viewed your misstep as a problem?
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reader, CJH +, writes (20 December 2010):
 It was a drunken fumble just forget it ever happened and carry on as usual.
Christmas parties are notorious for this sort of thing!
I'm not saying it's right but it's just a mistake - no big deal.
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