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Archived questions from: 15 May, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Can I date my best friends ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I’m in love with my best friends ex boyfriend, they broke up 6 weeks ago after a 22 month long relationship, and can I date him or not????? I have been her friend for 19 months since we started high school together. She was dating him since Gr.9. ...

My trekkie friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I am exactly twenty-two years and two weeks old, my best friend is just over twenty-two years and four months old. My best friend is a man we shall call "Quinton". He and I have been in acquaintance with each other for a little over twenty years; we ...

I don't want to scare her but I LOVE her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - I really like a girl and i finally got the guts to tell her i like her she is a close friend and ex girlfriend to my best friend i don't talk to her at skool because we both hang around in different placs. she said it was sweet that i liked her and ...

I think I'm in love with someone but I don't know what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I am 16 and a half and in the middle of taking my GCSEs. An IT tech at my school turned 40 2 days ago. What's the problem? I think about him all the time and love being around him. He's really funny and we have similar interests. My friends...

My 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again!...

He's going through a hard time right now, how can I be his friend?

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15 May 2009 (F) - hey guys . i love my boyfriend and i would and do go out of my way for him , he has been feeling a little -off- lately , not doing that great at college , job going nowhere and he lives alone so i guess he is lonely sometimes, i dont what to do but ...

Situation gone bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hey I kinda got a little situation going on here... so me and this girl have been talking for 3 weeks and she was like all over me, I really saw a future with her and I wanted to commit to her, but the problem is that I recently found out that there ...

What am I for him???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - I am two years and a half older than him, I knew him three years ago via internet, we were chatting almost every day.. he lives at 5000 km from. I thought that the age gap and the long distance would keep us from falling for each other but I was ...

I just want my roommate to respect our agreement and my feelings. is that too selfish?

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15 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm living in the room of 3 bedroom apartment... and i have one room mate sharing this room with me since I am living in a very expensive city and cant afford to pay the rent of the room alone and the rent is too high... I been living ...

Why doesn't he notice me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Ok I really like this guy but he doesn't pay attention to me. It's like I don't exist to him. I don't want to like him but I can't help it. I would just catch myself staring at him for like a really long time. Right now he is going out with another ...

I'm so jealous of my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Me and my bestfriend are unseprable. But she always in a great relationship and when she's in one guys try to break them up bcuz they like her sooo much. You don't understand how much I want my ex boyfriend back when she could have any guy in a ...

Best friend's girlfriend is evil

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

15 May 2009 (?) - Im very confused over my best friend. This boy, I'll call him Allyn, and I have been very close friends for 6 years. We had a serious relationship that lasted for about a year and a half. We broke up about 10 months ago. He's been dating this girl ...

He knows I like him now and is not talking to me, what do I do to change this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - At first it was just my little group of freinds who knew I fancied him, then my English teacher (who likes to think she's cool!) decided to ask what the latest gossip was. Then somewhow, it ended up with my teacher quizzing all my friends; trying t...

He's my best friend, but I love him otherwise, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hello! im 16 years old girl and im inlove with my bestfriend! he's a great guy and all of our class's are together and we talk and see each other like 24/7 and he keeps saying i love you but i know he means it as a (friendship kinda love) he k...

Like her a lot, but need someone to interpret her e-mail message please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Does this mean i shouldnt persue her? I always thought the girl in my office liked me, we've been working together for a few years now and im still crazy about her but now I get the impression she just sees me as a friend although she really sends...

I feel like a ping pong ball going between these two guys...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - i was 16 when i first met him (my ex), he was then 20. he was perfect for me, a drummer, he matched my personality and character, took care of me and was all i ever wanted in a man. however, he smoked, had a nasty temper (although he use it only ...

Is he into me or just likes the other girl or trying to get me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hello, I have dropped by to say and ask for some advice. Well, First of all I *fancy* my brother's Friend. My brother’s friend is 16 years old but 17 this year. We both kind of did like each other but I told my brother and he did freak out but ...

8 years going... and I'm not happy inside.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Help Needed 8 years later I'm a Gay man who is with my first guy for 8 years, after the second year i decided to go to France to meet someone else, it was hard but i told my partner that i was not happy and why i was not happy, 6 years later we i...

He betrayed my trust and lied to me about something so stupid it doesn't make sense!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - okay... well this guy and I were best friends for almost 6 years, we started dating a year ago. Since then we have been discussing marriage. well we have been doing the long distance thing since christmas and lately I have felt things are different ...

How do I tell her that I am in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hi everyone,i am in luv with girl who is 2yrs older than me,we melt when she came to my store almost lost i offer her my phone to call the person she is looking for,since then we are friends how do i tell her that i am in love with her ...

In love with your best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - Hey im in love with my best friend... i known him for 3 years.. when we first met i liked him alot, now 3 years on i cant stop thinking bout him... i love him so so much but he doesnt feel the same.. ive told him so many times and he is not intere...

Formally requested RSVP, got nothing... Do I say something? Just a party.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Backstory, good place to start I suppose: Just moved across town. Not many friends, but the friends I have are solid (ish) Anyways, invited a mess of people over for a party, I usually dont throw parties and the roommate was going out of town, ...

Do you think they think I'm creepy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, so i have a playstation 3 and on my ps3 i have a 'friends' list. i currently have a few girls on this 'friends' list and my problem is that they ignore me unless i text them and ask them how they are doing and things like that. it's alw...

How can I gain my pride and keep my cool in front of her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - pls read it to the end i have to quistions to answer there is this girl who i like very very very much and i know that she likes me becasue we always flirt and keep gazing at each other often but she is playing hard to get and she is very good in ...

Why does it seem like certain people get all the sex in the world?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - Well I am getting older and I am still a virgin. I am about to go to college, so hopefully I will meet someone at some point in the next few years. I was just wondering why it seems like there are a few people who get a TON of sex, and others ...

I like this girl but I didn't know she had a boyfriend

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15 May 2009 (M) - i like this girl but i didnt know she had a boyfriend. Two days ago this Friend of mines asked me if i liked her i told her that i kinda sorta had a crush on her and she told me this really you Doo :]] ok well your so awesome and well i like you ...

Her Boss, her lover, it ended, it started and now it's ended.. advice please!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 May 2009 (F) - My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our lives. We never argued, we laughed all the time at ...

What can I do to make her find me more interesting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 May 2009 (M) - i really like a girl that i met on myspace so i recently invited her to my house and she came over. we talked and i think she kinda likes me but im not sure. what can i do to make her like me and what can i do to make her find me interesting?...