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Do you think they think I'm creepy?

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Question - (15 May 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi guys,

so i have a playstation 3 and on my ps3 i have a 'friends' list. i currently have a few girls on this 'friends' list and my problem is that they ignore me unless i text them and ask them how they are doing and things like that. it's always me who initiates the conversations and what i don't frikkin get is why can't at least one of them initiate a conversation from time to time? say something to me, a hello every now and then? something? what would be the harm in doing that? sometimes i think that they might get weirded out because i text them out of the blue sometimes and because i'm being friendly and they might find that to be suspicious. i don't know. do you think that they find me asking how they're doing and stuff creepy? is that possible? this neglect from these chiks really really bugs me.

i'm always the one to initiate dialogue and if i don't, they won't say anything. one of these girls on my list who i love dearly that chats with me the most is tricky. she plays hard to get. one day she'll be nice and flirtatious telling me she misses me and then... nothing! i even had a girl delete me a few months back when all i was doing was being nice! i was really offended. i just don't get it. it's quite bizarre and any opinions/advice to be appreciated.

Goodbye

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009):

Just forget it. Stop wondering "why" and seeking attention. Maybe the problem is with them, not with you. Stop writting them too, move on and live just by yourself, they are not true friends anyway who needs them. Take care man.

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A female reader, Pyro_Dimples United States +, writes (15 May 2009):

Pyro_Dimples agony auntnah..i text people all the time and get text's from guys all the time that i never text first. I enjoy getting those text's. maybe if it bothers you so badly you should mention in the convo, "hey why don't you ever text me?" see what they say..it couldn't hurt.

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