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writes:At first it was just my little group of freinds who knew I fancied him, then my English teacher (who likes to think she's cool!) decided to ask what the latest gossip was.Then somewhow, it ended up with my teacher quizzing all my friends; trying to guess who I fancied! By this point most of the class was listening to our conversation. When she did guess correctly, the few people who didn't hear were quickly informed and I was left wondering what just happened and thanking goodness that he was only in one of my lessons that day!After English, the news spread like wildfire and obiously he found out fairly quickly. He was one of my good friends and he spoke to me all the time (according to one of our mutual friends, he had no idea I fancied him). Now he won't even look at me. People have been telling me that he fancied me, but if that was the case, surely he would have asked me out when he fouund out I liked him? Now I'm scared that I've lost him for good, both as a friend and as the possibility of a boyfriend.I don't know what to do, adivce of any kind would be greatly appreciated - although if you do insist on saying 'Talk to him', please sugest what to say because I'm completely at a loss as to what to say or do.Thank you in advance :)
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reader, sammi star +, writes (16 May 2009):
 Your english teacher really should've kept her nose out of this. If people are telling you he liked you then maybe he just feels shy around you now he knows you feel the same and isn't sure what to say? You've got mutual friends so try asking them what's going on with him an how he feels about you now. Give it a little time and see if he comes round. If he won't make the first move though and you really don't want to loose him as a friend then you're just going to have to talk to him. Explain that even if he doesn't feel the same about you, you value his friendship and want to get back to that. Good luck x
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