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writes:okay... well this guy and I were best friends for almost 6 years, we started dating a year ago. Since then we have been discussing marriage. well we have been doing the long distance thing since christmas and lately I have felt things are different between us even though every time i see him things go back to perfect.well i got a call a couple days ago saying that my bestfriend(noodle, who is one of those super innocent girls)had, had sex at my buddies house on prom night and it was all over school. I asked my boy how he knew it was true and he said one of the teachers told him that she had heard blake(noodles boyfriend) talking about it and that blake had been telling everyone around school about it. I asked my boy if he had talked to noodle about it and he swore he had. Even though I never imagined noodle doing that especially at our friend stevens house i said okay and believed him because he has never lied to me before. well anyways i called noodle and blake and they both said it wasn't true and when i told my boy i had talked to them he started in with all the i'm so sorry baby i make this right shit. He then made up this story about how ethan (who is like a brother to me,also his best-friend) was the one telling everyone about it and he trusted ethan so he thought it was safe to lie to me about confirming it with noodle. He says he is going to make it right with noodle, but that is my bestfriend that he lied to me about(and to be honest I got mad thinking she had lied to me,and she really had done it) I'm just not sure if I should try to get over it or end it now. It's just one lie but it could have really messed with noodles life and he swore to me. He knows how i have been hurt and how much I hate lying. What do I do?Please and thank you. I wouldn't have asked for help if I hadn't been about to marry this guy.Thank you for reading... XOXO-Jessi
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 i think you two need to work on your relationship before even thinking about marriage spend a year or to to really get to know each other before tying the knot. it seems like an honest mistake on his behalf he thought he could trust his friend and yours and it turned out bad. ide give him a second chance but just becareful in the future what you believe about your friends and ask them before believing everything your told. hope this helps aphex xx
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