A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I'm living in the room of 3 bedroom apartment... and i have one room mate sharing this room with me since I am living in a very expensive city and cant afford to pay the rent of the room alone and the rent is too high... I been living with my room mate for 8 months now... at first she seemed very nice and honest sooo sweet. I thought i was so lucky to get such a room mate and we became fiends. I noticed that she was untidy but I thought I would let it pass since she was quiet and respectable but not clean... Recently I lost my job and after losing my job she decided to move out of the room to find a place of her own... so I was ok but please give me one months notice before you move out since that was our agreement when she moved in that should give me a notice of one motnh so I am able to get another room mate but the thing is she stabbed me in the back, she said whenever I find a studio am sorry I will move out, I wont be able to give you one months notice and now while she is lookin for a studio and yet not finding one a new girls from the other rooms moved in so she keeps nagging all the time that the flat is becoming disgusting and that she cant wait to move out while she is the untidy one, she doesnt see herself but what's hurting me is that she keeps saying how she cant wait to move out while she seems suffering without a job and now how can i afford to pay the room alone?She is free to go, its her right but I just want her to respect my feelings, she keeps saying how she is suffering to fiind a studio and she cries and nags. what am I gonna say then when I have no job and now maybe no place to stay and the big thing is that she didnt stick to the agreement of giving me one months notice when she finds a place cuz how am I gonna get a room mate when she is still in my room? How can I place an ad that I need a room mate when she even doesn't know when she is leaving? What am I gonna do? Am I being harsh on her? Am I being selfish when I say that she is bothering me, that she is crying for a studio while I have no job and maybe no place... she is free to go but I just wanted her to respect my situation and act politely.
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