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writes: 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): pleaseeeeeeeeee tell me you do not have feelings for this "friend"
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reader, hoopla 1009  +, writes (16 May 2009):
I have to tell you thats not a friend, you dont need that remark, He should encourage you in other ways, I wouldnt bother with a negative person like that . He is not worth it from my experience with friends. open other doors in your life . good luck i hope this helps. and dont waste another minute thinking about what he said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): You would be a fool to even think about him again let alone contact him!
He's a jerk and doesn't deserve your friendship!
I don't know why people say mean things like that to one another, but I agree with Denny...He's not much of a friend!
Britt
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): I am stunned that any human would say such a thing to another! What a horrid thing to say. He had no right, he has no respect so listen up, your 'friend' is an ass. Now that you have recognized his toxicity and stupidity, take responsibility and end this relationship. Because by continuing this unhealthy friendship, you are just hurting yourself, all the more. And I am hoping you aren't one of those 'pleaser' friends who want people to be their friend and like them, so badly, that it would be tough to kick his ass to the curb. Make your own self-worthiness more important than trying to be a friend to this loser dork. You need to see this friendship for what it isn't, and that is..unhealthy. Take responsibility for how he inflicted this hurt on you, with no thought for your feelings. Understand, he's not a friend, hun! So my advice: Go ahead and end the friendship. It’s difficult for nice people to do this but necessary and certainly not fun. So you know that this friendship is hurting you..now all you do is tell him to take a hike.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): You're a nasty person and no one wants you, or your sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): complete twat who can just throw lines like that at someone he calls a "friend?" no respect or care n maybe u should show him this friend so he can see how everyone agrees what a twat he is i wouldnt contact him again!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009): I shoulsn't think he's worth contacting agian by the sound of him. Basically his comments are negative, If no-one wants to milk a cow it's undesirable. Just step over this dick heads comments. I suppect the problem is you have self resect and don't give your 'milk' away for free.
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reader, Lina319 +, writes (15 May 2009):
 It means your "friend" is a big ***hole, and unless he apologizes for his rude remark, you shouldn't even bother.
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reader, morgan5885 +, writes (15 May 2009):
it's like saying you're fat plus saying you're the girl no one would want to have sex with.
harsh stuff, i wouldn't talk to him again
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reader, aphexinfinite  +, writes (15 May 2009):
 basically your a cow who no one would want to be with in other words your fat and useless. which is a rather mean comment to say to anyone even if you hate them. their must of been something that set him off or something perhaps you said or perhaps hes not even a true friend and hes shown his true colours. leave him alone and if he apologise then make sure he is sorry for what hes done other than that you dont need someone like that in your life. im sure your not a cow no one would milk im positive it was something to make you feel bad but dont he has no right to say that best not to retaliate in the way he did your better than so keep your head high and forget that looser. good luck aphex
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