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Like her a lot, but need someone to interpret her e-mail message please?

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Question - (15 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Does this mean i shouldnt persue her?

I always thought the girl in my office liked me, we've been working together for a few years now and im still crazy about her but now I get the impression she just sees me as a friend although she really sends mixed signals, every time she passes she looks at me (99% of the time), we talk every day in email and face to face..recently ive begun to like her a lot more and feel like i NEED to know if she is that way inclined, although today in email we were joking around where she said she was going to sell her body for money and i said "sweet! how much??" and she replied with "haha, you're excluded, you would never look at me the same again (6)" (6) being the msn emote for a devil face.

I honestly felt shot down, like it was her way of saying "sorry, i dont like you that way"

can anyone interperate that?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

She is sooo flirting but ask her. I bet she is thinking the same thing. I went through this for months during this last semster and we finally just starting seeing each other about 3 weeks ago. So stop wasting time... Just dont tell her right off the bat that you admired her for that long that much. Just be cool, calm and easy....I'm sure you'll be fine...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009):

I think it means she wouldn't want you to see her in that light...so she could possibly like you because she cares about what you'd think of her if she were to do that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009):

She's either saying "Im so ugly you'd hate me" or considering the devil face "Im so hot you'd never be able to look at me the same way again" aka flirting. I dont see it as her shooting you down. Sounds like flirting to me.

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