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anonymous
writes:Ok here it goes, I have a massive crush on another girl who is in my drama class. She is gorgeous and wish I could tell her. However I think she is straight, don't talk to her often and don't want to make a big fool of myself if I do tell her and I am very worried that if it blurts out she will feel creeped out about it.What should i do?
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reader, Emz105 +, writes (29 December 2009):
I went through exactly that, i made the huge mistake of telling my sort of friend that i was in love with her for 2 years, she seemed okay with it at first but then started getting snappy about it, i think you should keep it to yourself and tell maybe your best friend to get the whole thing off your chest, you will feel alot better, but dont tell her just yet, get to know her and then drop slight hints that you are bi, if she is fine with that then give her a few days to ajust then try telling her that you like her, but mention that you value her more as a friend and you don't wanna ruin your friendship.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Keep the crush to yourself and try to get to know her better. Maybe she's not such a wonderful person once you get to know her--often the fantasy of the image is better than the reality.
You don't want to come on to someone who fundamentally is not interested in you, so lighten up and don't feel you have to do anything. Watching and waiting is a decent strategy when you don't know what to do.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): why dont you try and talk to her. Not tell her how you feel right away but try and be friends with her at first. Then when time progresses and if you guys become good friends then you won't feel like she will tell people or freak out that way it goes alittle more smoothly.
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