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writes:Hey guys! Well basically I met up with an old friend as he was tutoring me for my end of year exams. We got pretty close and have ended up sort of seeing each other. Well we act like a couple, but were not officially going out.. I guess were still dating.Anyway hes been very busy recently, and he says hes broke, so we cant go out as much but thats cool cos im so busy too.So I was talking to my best friend cos I tell her everything, and she was like 'Oh he can tutor me over the holidays!' cos we have exams after xmas. But I no longer take that particular subject.The thing is, im not happy with this. Ok, nothings arranged or anything, but I feel bad in myself that I get a bad feeling about letting this happen... I dont think anything would happen, but I dont particularly want them getting any closer. Right now she only sees him if we go out as a group, but I would be uncomfortable with them being alone together, partly cos shes such a flirt, i think it comes naturally... and also there was an incident before when she thought me and him were just fwb and there was no emotion, so she was like all over him... and I got upset. Even if we were fwb I dont think that would be acceptable...but anyhoo, should I say something to her? Or keep quiet? Because if I dont mention it she will probs forget, or she might not... but then again I dont have a claim to him really... not so sure what id say to her! I just dont like where this is headed..So do I say it, or not? And am I being unreasonable?Thanks x
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reader, tjazzy  +, writes (3 December 2009):
Don't mention it again, but if she does, tell her he's too busy to help her. If she keeps pestering you then maybe she should ask him herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Yeah well only bring it up if she arranges something officially with him
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