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writes:There's this guy I cannot get over. He is amazing and charismatic and I just can't get him out of my mind. Sometimes I hate his guts and other times I swear that he's going to be mine. It's been more than a year now and I'm stuck, I really don't know what to do. I am totally in love with a man who will not love me back. Unrequited love is terrible! Any ideas on how to deal with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd the worst part is that he's my ex. So that really doesn't help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): (sigh) I am in a similar situation now....I am head over heels for this guy, but he has a girlfriend. He doesnt peg me as the type to be unfaithful yet he's so perfect for me. I know we'd be great together....I hope you get him. You sound like a terrific person. It sounds like he may be scared to try something new.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI talk with other guys, coincidentally his friends, well technically they're my friends now too. But the guy I really like and his girlfriend just passed the year mark. Unlikely anythings going to change. :(
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reader, CandyCurves  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Sometimes love can be so painful.But true love means when two people love eachother. I repeat two. Been there , done that, honey. I'm your age, the only thing you can do is try to make him see what a beautiful person you really are.If he still doesnt love you like you do.You cant be feeling like this forever ... I know this was probably not what you were looking for but be realistic. Do you think hes going to dump his girlfriend? I'd go out there and find someone who can show me the true definition of love ,not this. I'm sorry.Best of LuckCandyCurves
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has a girlfriend. I understand he wants to be true to her. But if this were not the situation I'm sure things would have been different. In a way he will love me, we're tied together by family(Not that close but still related), though not by blood. I'm adopted. He made it quite clear when I flirted with him over a family dinner that he wasn't really interested. It pains me since he had before told me he loved me. I did ask him and he said no. Unless he was lying or something the answer is and was no.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Why do you say he will not love you back??
More info please!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 December 2009):
Are you sure he'll never ove you back? Have you asked him? If you haven't, why don't you try taking to him and see what he says. If you have, then I'm afraid you have to work thrugh this by limiting your contact with him, making sure you're getting out with other friends and meeting other guys, even if it's just for friends.
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