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We are just friends to him. If I tell him, I'm scared it will spoil everything!

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Question - (2 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hiya, i really really need your help on this one.

There is this boy and he has been my friend now for like 2 years, but there is one slight problem, I have fancied him all along but just never told him. About 1 month ago we had just become friends again after a massive fallout for weeks just because I said he had changed. Now we are back on track again.. BUT JUST AS FRIENDS :( I see myself not being popular but getting on with everyone and most popular people. There are some really popular girls who just pull him away when Im talking to him.. he sometimes seems interested in me.. but when there are other mates of his around.. he cant really be bothered. We do flirt quite alot.. but i just really want him to know I fancy him. :/

Im scared that If I tell him straight, it will ruin our wonderful friendship.. how can i get the other girls to back off without being mean or falling out with them and should i tell him?

Please help!

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A male reader, SV United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2009):

I think you should risk it tell him honey. If you don't it will drive you crazy as you'll forever be wondering "what if he said yes"? Beware though that it could ruin your friendship. If it does then he's not mature enough to handle something like this and probably isn't the guy for you.

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