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anonymous
writes:Hi everyone :)I like a girl in my workplace, who is 8 years older than me. One day, in a conversation, she said she can't accept a guy younger than her as bf. Reason, girl gets old faster than guys do. Guess she knows I like her lol.Since she never tries to avoid conversation, answering call, replying text, so I decided to ask her out for movie. She said yes but days later she told me, her friend, a she, wants to join too.When the day comes, I went there earlier to get tickets. She paid back and I don't know why I just take it lol.Ok, when the movie is over, I went to washroom. Her friend saw me walking to it so I didn't tell any of them.When I came out, they are gone. I called, she said she thought I left. I don't want her to misunderstood that I left without telling them. I feel that act is rude lol. I explained to her and she said maybe next time we will go out again.I am not sure if her friend told her I went to washroom. Reflecting back, I guess I am getting mixed signals from her.Anyway, do you think I should keep chasing this girl? No doubt, I like her but I don't want us turn out in awkward situation because we meet every day at work.Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Thanks for the opinions.
You all made it so clear. Then, I think the other way round, of course I won't bring my friend along when I go out with someone I like.
Lucky that I haven't do anything stupid lol. At least, I am still her friend :)
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (2 December 2009):
 Oh hun, I think this lady just went out with you to be kind.... okay so she brought along a friend... and I am supposing the friend told her that you are probably not what she needs in her life...
Smile... and walk away!!! Be friendly towards her at work but not overly friendly, just keep it professional.
If she is interested in you, she must then make the move.
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reader, bitch +, writes (2 December 2009):
If she is interested in your she will let you know. In the meantime I would just treat her as a friend and don't ask her out again. I am not sure she wanted to go out with you as anything more than "friends" because she asked her girlfriend to tag along. If i wanted to go out on a date with somebody, I would have not asked my girlfriend to tag along with me. That is my honest oponion. Keep your chin up because she may not be the one but there are other nice women out there for you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 December 2009):
No, she has made it very clear that she isn't interested. She has said she won't go for a younger boyfriend, and also made sure there was another friend there so it wasn't just you two alone. And, she may have left to make sure you understand she's not for you. Be a good friend to her at work, but you need to move on.
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