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writes:Hi Guys!,ok I'm really really worried about a few issues in my life right now. I feel as if I've screwed up majorly and really need someones advice.I'm a bisexual guy, british, but two months ago i moved out to budapest (hungary) for a year. only till I moved out of england did I manage to explore the 'other side' of my sexuality.I've made some really stupid mistakes and am really worried. Firstly I've visited some gay saunas. not had sex with anyone there but only fooled around (oral/rim etc)...but unprotected. what do you think are the chances of me being infected? Ive never got myself tested before and will be doing in about three weeks timeAlso I'm currently seeing two guys. One of them (lets call him john) Im gonna dump next time I see him hopefully as I've realised he's pretty much only in for the sex. also he's kind of cheating on someone else with me, that im strictly against.But the other guy, (call him steve) I really really like. Hes so nice, although we've only been on one date, I really hope things work out with him n me. the problem is that he dosn't know anything about me or what I did previously. I really want to tell him but im scared how he might react. Also since i dated him i saw another guy in a sauna...nothing happened apart from he jerked me off. (sorry for being so explicit!). would that count as cheating? I feel so stupid and ashamed for what ive done. and it gets worse...he doesnt know im bi...he thinks im gay.My question is what do I do? do I tell him or shall I just put it behind me...but i want to be honest! Have I cheated on him already or does it not classify as? I know all this sounds a bit silly but I'm a little inexperienced in this stuff. nor am i the type of guy that would do these kind of things. dont know how i managed to be this way. feel so bad....and really need u guy's advice!Thanks in advance
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (19 December 2009):
 relax you are all not cheating on each other- the rules with gay men are often more felxible, remeber men often want sex and thats it. one date doesn't tell you much about a person. you need to develop a gay social network...
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reader, burningredphoen  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 I'm not sure, but looking it from a logical view...if you get into a relationship with him, its a relationship....he has to worry about the whole population stealing you from him (men and women, instead of just men)I don't know though...I've never been in a situation like that
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